• pibaker 2 hours ago

    It is a great irony that the heavy handed push for "protect da kids" is all happening while we learn, day by day, that the richest and most powerful members of our society have no problem hanging out with a convicted child sex trafficker.

    Rules for thee, free love for me.

    • alexfromapex 2 hours ago

      People don't realize that all of our problems lately are stemming from lack of truly representative government. Until we find a way to ensure political candidates aren't corrupt and bought off, there will always be corruption, double standards, and lack of accountability from them.

      • root_axis 9 minutes ago

        The issue isn't representation, it's division. The party that won is being well represented with respect to the values of their constituents, whereas the opposition views it as a daily nightmare. These two visions of the world cannot be reconciled.

        • anon7000 2 minutes ago

          Representation needs to be less about black/white political ideology and more about the specific needs of various people. Farmers need representation, white color workers need representation, small business owners need representation, but their needs are all different, and don’t really boil down to left/right politics. The government isn’t treated as a forum to collaborate on solving problems, but as a playground for the powerful to create boogeymen that get people riled up.

        • tankenmate an hour ago

          Isn't it just so much easier to make sure that wealth isn't concentrated in so few hands? Tax wealth, not work.

          And before everyone gets upset, tax serves two purposes; 1) control inflation (it in effect burns money that was issued when the govt previously paid for things), 2) disincentivises selected behaviours. and one side effect, when the govt runs a tax deficit it increases inflation, and of course the contrapositive is also true.

          • jlhawn a minute ago

            > control inflation

            I think you are confusing cost inflation with an increase in the money supply. The way the US government funds deficit spending is not by increasing money supply (though it could) but by issuing debt in the form of US Treasury bonds. That is a transfer of money from bond investors to the government. No new money is made. This is distinct from the way that banks issue loans which is by creating new money in the form of credit (but that credit money gets "burned" as loan principal is paid back). So federal taxes do not actually control inflation in the way you are describing. Since federal deficit spending is not financed by increasing the money supply, it can only cause price inflation if it increases aggregate demand over the current productive capacity of the economy. An example would be paying more for healthcare subsidies when there's a shortage of doctors. Or subsidizing demand for housing with more mortgage subsidies when there's a housing shortage. Taxes could also increase inflation if they have the effect of reducing supply of some goods or services (like tariffs do).

            • redleader55 38 minutes ago

              It would be so nice of that tax was actually "burned"(similar to proof of stake), instead of being used to fund even greater inflation. This comes in the form of a huge administration, which gets payed for providing, many times, negative value. Alternatively, it is used to pay social benefits for the sole purpose of keeping the current political party in power.

              • swiftcoder 22 minutes ago

                > Alternatively, it is used to pay social benefits for the sole purpose of keeping the current political party in power

                This sounds like a 2-party government problem, not a tax problem. Plenty of countries do just fine spending that money to provide healthcare, unemployment, etc to their citizenry. Only really seems to be the US that views this as a negative

                • malfist 14 minutes ago

                  Oh we spend that money, just on weapons or handouts to the welfare class known as the ultrawealthy.

                • worik 2 minutes ago

                  I am amazed. What an incredible statement!

                  The USA is very corrupt, true. But getting rid of the "huge administration" and burning tax receipts is not going to solve that. How could it?

                  One of the roles of the state in a modern society should be to ensure no one is left behind to starve, wither and freeze amongst the incredible resources we (as a society) have accumulated.

                  That takes administration. That takes resources. That is what your taxes should be used for.

                  I agree that far too much is used to give aid to the powerful, but the solution to that should not be to condemn the weak.

                  Burning taxes and de-funding the administration is exactly that: condemning the weak.

                • fud3748 an hour ago

                  Sure, it’s easy to tax “wealth”. Except most wealth today is of the type where Alice owns 10 million Y and Bob decided to pay $1000 for one Y. Alice cannot possibly sell her Y for near that price, but now she will be taxed on “wealth” of $10 billion.

                  • AaronM 26 minutes ago

                    If someone takes a loan out against an unrealized gain, that should immediately trigger a tax event.

                    The real solution though is for the legislative branch to not be beholden to those same people and be able to quickly and effectively close tax loopholes as they are discovered.

                    • njarboe 11 minutes ago

                      Agreed. This would get rid of borrow against gains to spend tax free. But also just get rid of the income tax, it is the worst way to tax, and do a land value tax.

                      • cluckindan 11 minutes ago

                        That would instantly wipe out most leverage from the stock market, and from a casual bystander perspective, it would be a great thing.

                      • vintermann 42 minutes ago

                        There's a very simple solution to that problem. Tax Alice in Y rather than in $.

                        • flir 34 minutes ago

                          So it would fix false valuation shenanigans too? I see that as a win/win.

                          • PunchyHamster 41 minutes ago

                            you can tax stock without taxing inventory.

                            Also the term "asset" exists and is used in accounting

                            • __MatrixMan__ 44 minutes ago

                              Maybe we need a debt jubilee then.

                              • antonyh 44 minutes ago

                                Only in a system where the buyer sets the price.

                              • nine_k an hour ago

                                With wealth concentrated in so few hands, it's already not that easy to walk it back :-/

                              • WillAdams an hour ago

                                My solution for this is to rate-limit political contributions --- they may only be made in an amount equal to what a minimum-wage worker might reasonably be expected to donate from a week's wages (say 10% of hourly min. wage * 40), as a physically written out check or money order physically signed by hand (at least an "X" mark) and mailed in a first-class envelope with at least a similarly signed cover letter explaining the reason for the donation.

                                If this causes the extinction of the political lobbyist, I'm fine with that.

                                • ashleyn an hour ago

                                  This is the central problem with Citizens United. The supreme court tends to be unusually deferential with 1A cases and ruled that infinite money can go into formally unaffiliated PACs. Undoing this would require activist judges or a constitutional amendment.

                                  • uncletscollie 36 minutes ago

                                    Activist judges?

                                    The supreme court is majority activist judges. Why cant new judges undo the old activist judges wrongly decided law? Why are the other new judges suddenly activists?

                                  • Gigachad 12 minutes ago

                                    These days instead of paying out politicians you just buy social media bots or even the whole platform to push propaganda to the general public so they start agreeing with you.

                                    • jmcgough an hour ago

                                      PACs and dark money have been a disaster for this country

                                      • root_axis 7 minutes ago

                                        What's to prevent them from just ignoring those restrictions?

                                        • CGMthrowaway an hour ago

                                          Bundling would get around that to some extent

                                          • WillAdams 24 minutes ago

                                            1 check would require 2 x marks and 1 envelope and 1 stamp (or other indicia) --- just paying minimum-wage folks for stuffing envelopes and making "X"s would probably result in this being equivalent to a job creation program, and it would probably save the USPS.

                                        • patrickmay 42 minutes ago

                                          Power will always attract the corrupt and corruptible. The problem is the power. Reducing the size and scope of the federal government and devolving power to the states, communities, and individuals is the only way to minimize the negative effects of humans with too much authority.

                                          • ranger_danger 18 minutes ago

                                            Reducing the size of the government just makes it where billionaires and corporations control everything instead, which we're already seeing now. You'd need a way to reign in their power/wealth as well.

                                          • psychoslave 2 hours ago

                                            You can't find that because any concentration of power means the corruption forces have only very limited surface to pressure, and all the more that surface is actually easy to swap with one molded for even more corruption convenience.

                                            People ever rule through direct decisions or are enslaved into alien agendas on which they have no agency.

                                            • nicoburns an hour ago

                                              In countries like the US and UK with FPTP voting systems, proportional representation would help a lot. As it would make it a lot more viable for candidates outside of the main two parties to stand (and actually have a chance of winning).

                                              (although in a UK context, it's looking highly likely that we'll have a "changing of the guard" in the next election with both Reform and Green party making significant inroads at the expense of the more established Conservative and Labour parties)

                                              • kypro an hour ago

                                                FPTP will just guarantee that nothing meaningful can be done. Too much compromise in decision making is bad.

                                                Personally I think ideal set up is a system which grants quite a of power to a small handful of people, but makes it very easy for those people to be removed. This is typically the model that works best in business and other cooperative pursuits anyway.

                                                Throwing more people in the room with different opinions will ensure significant decisions can almost never made. Any policy too far to the right or too far to left will be watered down. The result is that you'll be led by centrists who can't really change anything and anything they do change will be disliked by everyone.

                                                • sally_glance 21 minutes ago

                                                  Great idea, except that I don't think it's easy to make sure we don't grant too much power. Basically this idea is the core of representative democracy. Problem is, the people who have been granted a lot of power are very good at finding loopholes to avoid or remove the safeguards we put in place...

                                              • 9dev an hour ago

                                                Which is exactly why we need a strong federation, and broad participation in democratic process across the bank. Many people can't even be bothered to vote, much less participate in their local, municipal governments. That must change.

                                                • drdaeman an hour ago

                                                  It’s easy to solve concentration of power, just distribute it more. Nowadays we can have quite large distributed systems.

                                                  It’s nigh impossible to invent a system that truly formalizes collective will with the goal of optimizing for everyone’s best long-term interests, minimizing unhappiness.

                                                  • rapind an hour ago

                                                    100% agree, and I think that's sort of what was intended with a lot of democratic government setups. What we fail to realize though (or maybe just remember) is that these systems will ALWAYS be under attack by those who want more power always looking for attack surfaces. (We seem to be under attack by almost all, if not all, current billionaires!)

                                                    For example in the US, the executive order is a massive problem. Citizens united as well. And for all democracies the natural appeal of strongman politics is a huge problem.

                                                    Every attempt at government overreach really needs to be questioned. I don't say rejected, just questioned. How will it be used by future powers? Is the tradeoff worth it? Can it be temporary? Do we even have a way to claw it back if it turns out to be detrimental? Is it too subtle and nuanced that the majority will miss seeing it? etc.

                                                    • quantummagic 21 minutes ago

                                                      Except it's very easy to "sell" government overreach. Whenever a plane flies into a tower, or flu season is extra scary, people will clamor for strict government authority. With every such event, the government gains capabilities and tendencies that always end up with a few people having outsized power over the masses.

                                                      • rapind 12 minutes ago

                                                        Yes, but I don't think it's so straightforward. I think there are bad actors marketing this overreach. Like the surveillance industry for the Patriot Act (tech, defence, telcom, maybe compliance vendors?). I don't think their goal is to create a distopia, but we should always be looking at incentives for large government programs.

                                                        • quantummagic 6 minutes ago

                                                          It is straightforward, and very predictable. Bad actors, aren't an anomaly.

                                                      • ranger_danger 12 minutes ago

                                                        > these systems will ALWAYS be under attack by those who want more power

                                                        I think this is an inherent human problem that prevents us from overcoming it... history has proven that the more equal everyone is, and the less individual ownership they have, the lazier and more bored they get.

                                                        Look at the previous attempts at socialism... people stop caring when there's no goal to work towards, they can't all be doing the same thing and just be happy, because humans are naturally competitive. We desire things other people don't have, like possessions, money, or power.

                                                        • rapind 11 minutes ago

                                                          Is there a way to accept but also limit greed that is reliable and durable?

                                                          Like a pragmatic meritocracy. We accept that there will be cheaters, and we won't catch or stop them all, but we have some hard limits. Do we care if you stop working so hard once you hit $1b? Maybe we'd even prefer that you did stop working (against societies interest!)?

                                                          This wouldn't even remotely resemble the communism bugaboo. It's basically saying, yes greed can be good, but at some point it gets ridiculous.

                                                    • riddlemethat an hour ago

                                                      In capitalism, the rich get powerful; in socialism, the powerful get rich.

                                                    • jimbokun an hour ago

                                                      Post Citizens United, that’s going to require a Constitutional amendment.

                                                      And the corrupt, bought politicians are the ones who would need to ratify it.

                                                      • asdff an hour ago

                                                        Let's not act like they weren't corrupt and bought before Citizens United

                                                      • wwweston an hour ago

                                                        You either win big enough under the current system, with its system problems, or you never win to improve it.

                                                        Imagining better systems before doing that is just a form of xkcd’s nerd sniping.

                                                        And the biggest challenge to representative government might well be that most people are terrible at engaging it productively. Voting is the bare minimum and most people don’t vote (let alone organize and lobby effectively). Some significant portion of those that do vote can’t correctly draw a line between policies they’d like and candidates who intend to work on delivering, and that’s before we get to the portion of the population that may not correctly anticipate policy outcomes or even really understand policy as a concept.

                                                        The system has actually been functioning surprisingly well considering, and as catastrophic as recent elections could be seen as, the outcome arguably represents a reasonable degree of fidelity to the input from the electorate.

                                                        If we still hold free and fair elections, the task of those who want representative government is to change enough of the electorate first.

                                                        • octoberfranklin 8 minutes ago

                                                          Term limits for congress.

                                                          • colechristensen an hour ago

                                                            You can't have truly representative government if the people voting don't understand or care that they're not being represented particularly well.

                                                            It is apparently not much of a risk to your seat if you don't represent the interests of your people because the people have become tribal and it is only their tribe they vote for with very little effective criticism of the leaders in their tribe. (it's not that complaints are nonexistent, they just don't result in anything)

                                                            • PaulDavisThe1st an hour ago

                                                              I think this is entirely the wrong way to think about this. While better elected representatives and officials would always be a nice thing, what we need is to ensure that we design systems around them that mitigate their corruption and double standards. We were even (collectively, across humanity) doing better and better at that until not that long ago.

                                                              • bsenftner an hour ago

                                                                We need regulations on the politicians because, clearly, their "public good use" far exceeds their contribution back.

                                                                • PaulDavisThe1st an hour ago

                                                                  I didn't really mean "regulations" but more a political (and civic) system in which a given individual's corruption etc. gets caught quickly and/or there are too many disincentives for them to to do much based on it.

                                                              • asdff an hour ago

                                                                >there will always be corruption, double standards, and lack of accountability from them

                                                                The hard part is this has been true going all the way back to the stone age ever since we elevated the first person arbitrarily to chief. There has been no model of government developed since that is immune to this. I really don't know how to get around this and it depresses me that we will always be held back by the slimiest who abuse systems.

                                                                • dbspin an hour ago

                                                                  Sortation.

                                                                  • RealityVoid 41 minutes ago

                                                                    Sortition?

                                                                  • johnnyanmac 2 hours ago

                                                                    That's a lot of work to do. It ultimately works off the issue that most voters are disengaged, while the most interested parties are very engaged.

                                                                    Corruption is happening out in the open and there's still so many people shrugging in response. One good push back from everyone all at once would fix a lot of things quickly. But that implies the people are united and not instead driven into manufactured conflict by said interested parties. It's basically enough that we're in a post truth era as of now. I don't know how we come back from that

                                                                    Anyways, repealing Citizens United would be a good first step.

                                                                    • 0_____0 an hour ago

                                                                      [warning/apology - this comment regards USpol specifically]

                                                                      Our media landscape has people focusing on basically everything except what we need to be. I am not sure that liberal democracy will survive the information age. So much effort goes into the process of argument, we aren't as a whole really thinking about how to solve our very real problems.

                                                                      China's technocratic rule, after some, shall we say, growing pains (hunger pains? Is it fair to say that when millions of people starved to death?), seems a lot better at creating a coherent strategy for economic growth and international soft power.

                                                                      One of my great fears is that democracy was the right model in the past decades and centuries, but that it won't keep up with the laser focused technocratic rule that a competent bureaucracy can potentially muster.

                                                                      • vharuck an hour ago

                                                                        Authoritarian governments are always more efficient than democracies. Their flaw is that citizens have no say in what goal will be efficiently pursued. When a technocratic authoritarian is in power, things improve overall (but there are still many "inefficient" people left behind or crushed). But when a cruel or incompetent authoritarian takes control, things hit lows that sound democracies wouldn't allow. Lows that take generations to recover from.

                                                                        • 0_____0 30 minutes ago

                                                                          While I like your message here, I don't think authoritarianism is actually more efficient (efficient at what?) usually. Because often it goes hand in hand with economic and social extraction, which is inherently inefficient.

                                                                          But I take and am a bit heartened by your main point - while the best case authoritarian regime can plan and execute more quickly and with greater efficiency than representative government, the worst case authoritarian govt is much much worse than the worst case possible with a functional democracy.

                                                                        • thwarted an hour ago

                                                                          > China's technocratic rule…seems a lot better at creating a coherent strategy for economic growth and international soft power.

                                                                          This requires that those in/with the power actually have altruistic, or at least not solely selfish, concerns. How rampant is government/bureaucratic corruption in China?

                                                                          I elided the population starving part in order to not distract from the possibility of truly selfless governance strategy. It may very well be the case that millions starving is considered "acceptable losses" ("the needs of the billions outweigh the needs of the millions") in executing on that strategy. Which, make no mistake, would be truly tragic and should be undesirable. But that not everyone sees it that way is really what we're fighting against.

                                                                          "I have a machine that feeds everyone, no one shall go hungry."

                                                                          "But mah profits!"

                                                                          "You only need profits so you yourself can eat, but that's now a solved problem"

                                                                          "But mah profits. How will we know who's winning?"

                                                                          • 0_____0 an hour ago

                                                                            Corruption definitely happens in China but even as a US person I can think of at least one major case where there were very real consequences for that. How many US govt officials have been executed for corruption? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Li_Zaiyong

                                                                            Millions starving during the Great Leap forward was very much NOT part of the plan, it was the result of some very misguided agricultural practices.

                                                                            My point is that in the same period, China has gone from "oops we accidentally caused the 2nd largest mass starvation event in history" to "we have the largest high speed rail network and manufacturing base in the world and nobody is even close."

                                                                            While the US went from "what's a postwar superpower to do? How bout some megaprojects?" To "I'm drowning in entitlements and houses now cost the same as the average lifetime GDP per capita".

                                                                      • netbioserror an hour ago

                                                                        Colossally awful take. Corruption is an intractable problem in human history. Power is a magnet for the worst people, and every system we invent can be exploited in innumerable ways. The only variable is how long the people of any individual society can remain free and prosperous before their decline. Temporary recoveries have only happened by lopping off massive chunks of empire, implementing extreme monetary reforms, and/or a switch to full autocracy. Every other outcome is terminal decline.

                                                                      • ozgung an hour ago

                                                                        It’s not irony. It’s by design. Politics is for controlling people. Rules don’t apply to rulers. No one cares about children or anything. Even manipulating the public opinion is outdated. Technology helps them to control. Freedom is an illusion today. We are not free anymore.

                                                                        • athrowaway3z 35 minutes ago

                                                                          Technology might be one half, but the other half is demographics.

                                                                          40 years ago you'd have more ideals, riots, and young-minded ideas.

                                                                          Nowadays, our societies are old on average (especially the politically powerful).

                                                                          Older people on average are more inclined to pick whatever solution they feel promises a bit more security.

                                                                          • rglover 31 minutes ago

                                                                            The gates have already been closed at the pasture's edge.

                                                                            Moo.

                                                                          • ActorNightly 2 hours ago

                                                                            What do you mean day by day.

                                                                            We have known this to be the case, for quite some time, yet majority of the public still thought that a convicted felon was good enough to be president.

                                                                            • dijit 2 hours ago

                                                                              I think that's the exact irony that the parent is eluding to.

                                                                              It's all about the kids, unless, idk, you're rich enough?

                                                                              • kelseyfrog 2 hours ago

                                                                                Andrew Carnegie's The Gospel of Wealth[1] lies squarely in the center of the foundational belief that those who've acquired such means have done so because they reflect "the highest type of man, the best and most valuable of all that humanity has yet accomplished."

                                                                                It takes only a brief glimpse of the real world and its most wealthy to recognize that an abundance of virtue is not what's reflected in reality. In fact, the benevolence Carnegie describes, serves as a smoke screen for cruelty, degenerate acts, and the slaughterhouse of the soul. We've sold out every moral for a bait and switch and it's well past time to reneg on the social contract.

                                                                                1. https://www.carnegie.org/about/our-history/gospelofwealth/

                                                                                • CGMthrowaway an hour ago

                                                                                  Andrew Carnegie wrote and lived in an era without an income tax. In that era rich men were expected to be broadly philanthropic, to steward their wealth for the good of the common, to act with generosity and responsibility. Because the state did not provide a safety net, the wealthy faced immense social pressure to act as stewards of the public good.

                                                                                  In today's era those expectations do not exist. The public-facing, gilded age palaces, which by their public nature tend to enforce good behavior by forcing them to physically interact with the society they profited from, have been replaced by private, gated bunkers behind tall hedges blurred out on Google Maps. The wealthy wear jeans and hoodies to "blend in" or appear common, when they are very much not. A rail tycoon in a 10X beaver tophat might offer a beggar something on the street. A tech mogul in a hoody might not even get solicited.

                                                                                  Income tax - and broadly speaking many other changes to the social contract between upper and lower classes, like the bureaucratization of welfare - has not just allowed but incentivized the wealthy to shirk the responsibilities of old, and outsource their morality to a (corrupt, as many have pointed out) government. And it's not good. There is no honor in giving anymore.

                                                                                  • kelseyfrog an hour ago

                                                                                    If we repeal the income tax, virtue will return to the wealthy.

                                                                                    Is that something you believe?

                                                                                    • CGMthrowaway an hour ago

                                                                                      Improbable. It's hard to un-ring a bell once rung. Was adding critical context to the Carnegie citation.

                                                                                  • rob74 an hour ago

                                                                                    I think you've got that quote backwards. In full it reads:

                                                                                    > Unequally or unjustly, perhaps, as these laws sometimes operate, and imperfect as they appear to the Idealist, they are, nevertheless, like the highest type of man, the best and most valuable of all that humanity has yet accomplished.

                                                                                    Or (to shorten it a bit): "These laws (of capitalism) [...] are nevertheless [..] the best and most valuable of all that humanity has yet accomplished". So this is only an unlimited belief in the virtues of capitalism, not in the virtues of rich people.

                                                                                    From the introduction:

                                                                                    > Carnegie believed in giving wealth away during one’s lifetime, and this essay includes one of his most famous quotes, “The man who dies thus rich dies disgraced.” Carnegie’s message continues to resonate with and inspire leaders and philanthropists around the world.

                                                                                    I really wonder what Carnegie would think about his successors dismantling USAID?

                                                                                    • kelseyfrog an hour ago

                                                                                      I believe the connection he was making was that the laws, results, and people profiting from the system all represent the best of humanity. That said, whether read forwards or backwards, the point still stands. I appreciate your attention to detail.

                                                                                  • hn_acc1 2 hours ago

                                                                                    It's all about the kids when you need a certain segment of the population to vote a certain way.

                                                                                    • echelon an hour ago

                                                                                      It's never about kids. If they cared about kids, they would have school lunch and wouldn't starve.

                                                                                      It's about control and monitoring of civilians. And creating a dragnet to ensnare any new politicians and business leaders.

                                                                                      Freedom of speech is insufficient. We need freedom of privacy and from monitoring and tracking.

                                                                                    • rootusrootus an hour ago

                                                                                      That is the uncharitable interpretation. I think it is at least as likely that voters consistently get to chose between a turd sandwich and a giant douche, so it will always be possible to accuse them of preferring a terrible candidate.

                                                                                      Also, nitpick: it was neither a majority of the public, or a majority of the eligible voting population, or even a majority of the people who voted.

                                                                                      I think a really good first step, at least in the US, towards making our candidate selection better would be to mandate open primaries.

                                                                                      • Gigachad 9 minutes ago

                                                                                        I think your interpretation is uncharitable. One of the options is a fraud and a pedophile and the other wasn’t. They absolutely were not equally bad.

                                                                                    • mrtksn an hour ago

                                                                                      It is kind of obvious that once someone reaches such a power they should be monitored all the time.

                                                                                      Criminality among the rich and the politically connected is off the charts. It’s way beyond any group of immigrants for example that these same people are trying to demonize.

                                                                                      Chat control? Every single politician should have that on their phone.

                                                                                      • hacker_homie 17 minutes ago

                                                                                        I think politicians should be the least privileged people in a society except those in prison. Any protections or exceptions for them alone are unconstitutional.

                                                                                        • agilob an hour ago

                                                                                          They will have that exception on their phones.

                                                                                        • hkpack an hour ago

                                                                                          These are literally _the same people_.

                                                                                          Musk was hanging out with child sex trafficker and is allowing kids to create porn with grok on X.

                                                                                          • omnimus 13 minutes ago

                                                                                            He is allowing a lot worse version. Allowing adults to create child porn with grok on X.

                                                                                          • Arubis 17 minutes ago

                                                                                            And, further, that all the child rape was coordinated, for the most part, in the clear over fucking Gmail.

                                                                                            But we have to decrypt everything to protect the kids.

                                                                                            • squidsoup 8 minutes ago

                                                                                              You're really pulling your punches there.

                                                                                              • nickpinkston 2 hours ago

                                                                                                I'm fine with the free love and debauchery, but just really keep it to adults and be safe.

                                                                                                • handedness an hour ago

                                                                                                  'I'm fine with extreme indulgence, but just really keep it restrained and be safe.'

                                                                                                  By definition, debauchery with durable constraints can't be normalized, as its appeal is the overstepping of norms.

                                                                                                  There's also an argument to be made that normalizing debauchery invites scope creep.

                                                                                                  • RIMR 2 hours ago

                                                                                                    I'm just going to go ahead and say that "free love" is a terribly inappropriate way to refer to sex trafficking, regardless of the age of the victims, unless you're being facetious (e.g., The Onion's "Penis Goofin'" allegations against Epstein).

                                                                                                    • cgriswald an hour ago

                                                                                                      I’m going to suggest re-reading the top level comment and the GP’s response. I don’t see anyone suggesting non-facetiously that free love and sex trafficking are synonymous nor that sex trafficking of adults is acceptable. I think the top level poster is being facetious; such a view is how these creeps might think. I think the respondent is, intentionally or mistakenly, ignoring that context and using the term at face value.

                                                                                                  • schnable 6 minutes ago

                                                                                                    It's useful to point out hypocrisy, but are you suggesting we shouldn't try to protect kids because of Jeffrey Epstein?

                                                                                                    • morgengold an hour ago

                                                                                                      I hope this time it really sinks in that law and rules are only for the little man. Time to think about the system from scratch.

                                                                                                      • imiric 15 minutes ago

                                                                                                        What makes you think next time will be different?

                                                                                                        Revolutions happen all the time. They all inevitably end up in the same place.

                                                                                                        The problem is not them. The problem is us.

                                                                                                        • jMyles 7 minutes ago

                                                                                                          > Revolutions happen all the time. They all inevitably end up in the same place.

                                                                                                          The optimistic take is that this phenomenon is a characteristic of the _emergence_ of an information age (through the agricultural and industrial ages), and will no longer be true of the internet-connected human.

                                                                                                      • 0sdi an hour ago

                                                                                                        it has never been about children.

                                                                                                        • volf_ 2 hours ago

                                                                                                          do as we say, not as we do

                                                                                                          • tux3 2 hours ago

                                                                                                            I am not a native English speaker, I may be missing a cultural nuance, but I wouldn't call any of what they did love. That word enters nowhere in a sickening child abuse island.

                                                                                                            • ambicapter 2 hours ago

                                                                                                              it's just sarcasm.

                                                                                                            • ingohelpinger 2 hours ago

                                                                                                              and they keep protecting the pedos from prosecution. lol.

                                                                                                              • oguz-ismail2 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                It's a question of scale. Neither crime is less serious but far more children are groomed and abused over Discord than flown in via some super rich sicko's private jet for a 'costume party'.

                                                                                                                • johnnyanmac 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                  Making everyone "teens by default" fixes none of that, though. Roblox spaces aren't exactly 18+

                                                                                                                • zozbot234 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                  This is no worse than Discord just banning NSFW content wholesale throughout the platform (which they would be entirely within their rights to do). It's a big fat nothingburger.

                                                                                                                  • RobotToaster an hour ago

                                                                                                                    I'm sure the owners of Tumblr thought the same.

                                                                                                                    • Macha an hour ago

                                                                                                                      The owners of Tumblr thought being banned from the app store was certain death, but losing the nsfw content was only possible death.

                                                                                                                    • Morromist 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                      It would be in their rights to do it.

                                                                                                                      Its users who value their privacy will be in their rights to leave and we will.

                                                                                                                      • johnnyanmac 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                        They have a right to ask for my passport and SSN. And I have a right to say "hell no" and delete my account in response.

                                                                                                                        • danaris 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                          It's not a nothingburger; it's a massive collection of personally identifying information.

                                                                                                                        • FireBeyond 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                          Except it is scarily easy to find servers which openly have minors selling NSFW content. Or BDSM servers targeted at "14-28 year olds".

                                                                                                                        • johndhi 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                          he was convicted of soliciting prostitution (not of minors), right?

                                                                                                                          why do we assume that the people he was hanging out with knew the details of what he did wrong?

                                                                                                                          • anon84873628 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                            This article was on the front page recently: https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=9534

                                                                                                                            So at least some lay people easily realized he wasn't worth getting involved with.

                                                                                                                            • johndhi an hour ago

                                                                                                                              good call! hadn't read that.

                                                                                                                            • hardlianotion 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                              He was arrested for sex trafficking minors and convicted procuring a child for prostitution.

                                                                                                                              • ceejayoz an hour ago

                                                                                                                                > not of minors, right?

                                                                                                                                https://www.justice.gov/usao-sdny/press-release/file/1180481...

                                                                                                                                "The victims described herein were as young as 14 years old at the time they were abused by Jeffrey Epstein... Epstein intentionally sought out minors and knew that many of his victims were in fact under the age of 18, including because, in some instances, minor victims expressly told him their age."

                                                                                                                                > why do we assume that the people he was hanging out with knew the details of what he did wrong?

                                                                                                                                Some of them were emailing long, long after his conviction.

                                                                                                                                • ibejoeb 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                  He pled to Procuring Person under 18 for Prostitution.

                                                                                                                                  • Finnucane an hour ago

                                                                                                                                    He ran a sex-trafficking ring that involved hundreds of girls and women. Possibly over a thousand. He wasn't keeping it all to himself.

                                                                                                                                • tabbott 19 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                  I'm biased, as I lead the Zulip project. But I think this is a reasonable place for me to post some thoughts.

                                                                                                                                  Given current events in the USA, I can't emphasize enough how worried one should be about the fact that a few companies like Discord, Google (Gmail), and Meta have databases with access to the private conversations of hundreds of millions of people with their closest friends and family members, linked up with their photograph.

                                                                                                                                  Some of the big strengths of running a self-hosted Zulip server for your community are:

                                                                                                                                  - Zulip servers are operationally simple, highly stable and easy to upgrade.

                                                                                                                                  - Zulip is much better than Discord or Slack for managing the firehose of busy communities. Or at least, a lot of people tell us that they prefer the user experience to everything else they've tried, after a few weeks of getting used to it. :)

                                                                                                                                  - Your community leaders get to make the policy decisions about data protection, identity, etc.

                                                                                                                                  - It's 100% FOSS software, with an extremely readable and maintainable codebase that ~1500 people have successfully contributed code to. I don't think you'll find modern alternatives with a comparable featureset to Discord that are more resilient to the sponsoring company being acquired or going out of business.

                                                                                                                                  - We are a values-focused organization (https://zulip.com/values/) where providing a public service is important to us all.

                                                                                                                                  - Each server is completely self-contained and independent, with the only centralized services needed from us being desktop/mobile app publication and mobile push notifications delivery (which is free for community use and soon to be E2EE).

                                                                                                                                  I'm happy to answer any questions.

                                                                                                                                  • crabmusket 2 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                    I recently moved a small community group from Slack to Zulip. Half because of the UX for infrequent visitors (topics are so much better than "50 unread messages in #general"). And half because of your organisational values, which are more aligned with ours than are those of Salesforce.

                                                                                                                                    The Bluesky team talks about "credible exit", and Zulip has that in spades - which makes me not want to exit.

                                                                                                                                    Thank you for the work you do. Hanging out in CZO watching the Zulip team work in public is inspiring!

                                                                                                                                    • areoform 5 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                      Does your app pass the grandma and quarterback test? Can I get my grandma and the group's jock/quaterback to use it without handholding?

                                                                                                                                      • IgorPartola a minute ago

                                                                                                                                        How does Zulip compare to Campfire and Stoat (and other FOSS) efforts? How is onboarding for non-tech people?

                                                                                                                                      • cheschire 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                        I deleted my Facebook account in 2011. After finding out how much critical neighborhood information I have been missing, I finally registered a new Facebook account fifteen years later to follow my neighborhood groups.

                                                                                                                                        A month later, the account was suspended for supposedly breaking guidelines. I never posted a single message, never reacted to any posts.

                                                                                                                                        They then required me to upload a video scan of my face to prove I was a person.

                                                                                                                                        We aren’t quite at the end of the internet, but man I can really see the end of this journey coming sometime soon.

                                                                                                                                        • elevation 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                          I helped an elderly woman create her first FB account. She'd just lost her husband and wanted to notify his friends about his upcoming memorial service. She knew their names but didn't have contact information.

                                                                                                                                          We created the account from an Apple device, registering from her home cable modem IP, giving FB her cellphone number and ISP issued email address — all strong signals of consumer authenticity. But after she added five of her relatives within half an hour, her account was locked for suspicious activity.

                                                                                                                                          There was an appeal button; she was asked to take a picture of her face from many angles and upload ID. She gave them everything they asked for, but when Facebook reviewed the appeal, they closed her account permanently.

                                                                                                                                          • jmaker 13 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                            Many consumer banking apps have begun integrating similar identity verification third-party providers. They are very inaccurate.

                                                                                                                                            Sometimes it works with the front camera on one smartphone but doesn’t with another (iPhone 17’s distortion), sometimes it recognizes your face on one day, but desperately fails to recognize you on another. I had to repeatedly record videos for it only to fail over and over again. Anything their system flags as suspicious, anything, will trigger the same video identification flow again, which effectively blocks your money in the account.

                                                                                                                                            I’m closing my accounts with a couple of banks with these video id flows. Simply because it’s way too easy to lose access to my money in the account with them. If their QA is not good enough for this vital requirement, I don’t want to know how they treat other requirements. They simply outsourced the id verification to some third parties that are way too unreliable.

                                                                                                                                            • retired an hour ago

                                                                                                                                              It sure beats the Reddit system where you think you are interacting with people, only to find out a couple of days later that your fresh account is shadow-banned and nobody is seeing your comments and that none of your likes went through.

                                                                                                                                              At least Facebook tells you that you are banned.

                                                                                                                                              • dymk an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                No, FB has their own shadowban system

                                                                                                                                                • kps an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                  Reddit and HN.

                                                                                                                                                  • alex1138 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                    I wasn't aware HN had it, but considering the number of [flagged] by people who work for big tech I'm sure some people actually posting truthful things have ended up on the shadowban list

                                                                                                                                                    • perching_aix an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                      Since when does HN have shadowbans?

                                                                                                                                                      • phpnode an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                        since almost forever, that's what the "show dead" toggle in your profile settings is for - it shows the dead posts from shadow banned people

                                                                                                                                                        • andersa an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                          I always assumed that those were posts that got flagged too often.

                                                                                                                                                          • daneel_w 5 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                            "Spamming", or rather, responding too quickly in an intense discussion, is cause for automatic shadowban here on HN. It happened to me on a previous account some years ago. The posts themselves were completely harmless, I merely responded to too many users in a too short timeframe. My attempts at having the ban undone also turned out to be a waste of time. Completely absurd.

                                                                                                                                                  • mixmastamyk 31 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                    Last year our old "High School class of 19NN" group received about a dozen join requests per week from bogus accounts for a couple of years. At first they were trivial to discriminate because they were folks located on the opposite side of the Earth. But over time they became filled with pictures and names of (randomly generated?) Americans.

                                                                                                                                                    I could still tell because their profiles were sterile and had few normal comments or likes etc. Also a high school class has a very narrow age range. We recently landed a fatal blow by disallowing joins by "pages" and adding a few questions. A trickle continued but stopped recently.

                                                                                                                                                    The hamfisted false positive response you described is probably a result of that.

                                                                                                                                                    • chamomeal 35 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                      Last year I finally caved and tried to sign up for instagram. It's tragic but it's almost like a second internet. So many small business and bands only have instagram. So many lil communities post their events only on instagram. I always have to ask friends with instagram to tell me when a brewery is open, when a show starts, etc.

                                                                                                                                                      So I tried to sign up (and I already HAVE an active facebook account from high school, with hundreds of friends) and it wanted me to scan my face. I did it, which I regret, only to be told five days later that I am too suspicious. So here I am, still locked out of all this information lmao

                                                                                                                                                      • alex1138 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                        Mark Zuckerberg, folks. It matters when his default philosophy is "They trust me dumb fucks". Copying Snapchat 9 times is more of a priority than account security. He wasn't "making a good point". He's a malicious asshole who deserved jail years ago

                                                                                                                                                      • snohobro 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                        Ironically, this may be one of the many straws that breaks the proverbial internet camel’s back. We all wax and wane about the old internet, the pre-homogenized, non-corporate, Wild West internet.

                                                                                                                                                        Perhaps these constant restrictions will finally spur us to create our own spaces again Our own little groups that exist independent of the corpo-sphere.

                                                                                                                                                        The only reason ‘the way things used to be’ went away was because the new thing was convenient. Well, now it isn’t anymore. So let’s just go back to the old thing.

                                                                                                                                                        • ssl-3 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                          I yearn for the days of yore when a few of us would co-lo some boxes at a small local ISP we were friendly with, where we'd get to take advantage of their always-on and (at the time) blazing-fast T1 connectivity. It was low-cost for everyone, and we'd host our own services for whatever was useful to us and our friend groups.

                                                                                                                                                          On the other hand: It was kind of awful when even my dialup access would get screwed up because someone's IRC server got DDoS'd -- again -- and clogged up the pipes.

                                                                                                                                                          ---

                                                                                                                                                          These days, the local ISPs are mostly gone. But the pipes are bigger -- it's easy for many of us to get gigabit+ connections at home. Unfortunately, the botnets are also bigger.

                                                                                                                                                          How do we get back to what we had?

                                                                                                                                                          • elevation an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                            Compete with facebook in an area you can actually win. Don't try to be all of a mobile messenger, news feed, telephony platform, marketplace, forum, async messaging... just do one of those things well for a group of users (potentially around a focus.)

                                                                                                                                                            Piggy back off of an existing community that has already built trust -- for instance, build a forum for a local activity that often attracts 10+ years of participation and involves equipment. Your board will become the best place for users (who already trust one another) to swap used gear, discuss local venue closures, etc. Adopt moderation metrics that sustain your community (don't let bullies and spammers spoil everyone's experience.)

                                                                                                                                                            In 10 years, you can completely replace larger platforms as the community of choice.

                                                                                                                                                            • johnnyanmac an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                              >In 10 years, you can completely replace larger platforms as the community of choice.

                                                                                                                                                              And by then you have to worry about money to upkeep the platform. You sell off or sell out your users, and the cycle repeats. Even for the most well meaning people, it comes down to the fact that scaling such communication isn't free.

                                                                                                                                                              We hear all these stories of eccentric billionaires going all out on their hobbies. Why do we have no eccentric FOSS people who donate to keep such stuff FOSS?

                                                                                                                                                              • elevation 16 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                > scaling such communication isn't free.

                                                                                                                                                                So don't scale. There is a sweet spot where a few $2 classifieds (e.g, for motor vehicles) will sustain your operating costs, and the high-trust environment keeps moderation efforts/costs low, while the total target audience is too small for most bad actors to bother with.

                                                                                                                                                                • ssl-3 33 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                  What if they're not scaled? What if scale is inherently constrained?

                                                                                                                                                                  Going back a bit further yet, I also miss local BBSs. Some were popular while many others were not. Almost all of them regardless of popularity were a labor of love: Very few BBS sysops ever recovered what was spent to start the thing up and keep it going and it was not, broadly speaking, an inexpensive hobby. It was a mosey-losing operation.

                                                                                                                                                                  But since long-distance telephone calls were billed by the minute, the systems were geographically-bound by the financial disincentives of far-away users. This made for tight, local communities (often with small dozens of semi-active users, and sometimes even hundreds!) and pretty effectively kept the idea of global domination-style growth off of the table.

                                                                                                                                                                  So, again: The constraints shaped it to be how it was.

                                                                                                                                                                  What kinds of constraints might form a path towards to this kind of small success today, in 2026, while there are giants like Meta stomping around?

                                                                                                                                                                  • johnnyanmac 23 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                    >What if they're not scaled? What if scale is inherently constrained?

                                                                                                                                                                    Very possible. I'm on Tildes and its invite only structure prevents the infamous Eternal September effect. It also means that it's nearing a decade and is very much not going to compete with other forums as a platform.

                                                                                                                                                                    I'm perfectly fine with that. But that doesn't seem to be what people en masse want. They want to connect with all their friends and family, and discover new ones through specialized communities. On a scale of a billion people, that's hard to manage. And if no one principled fills that void, the unprincipled will.

                                                                                                                                                                    >What kinds of constraints might form a path towards to this kind of small success today, in 2026, while there are giants like Meta stomping around?

                                                                                                                                                                    Plenty of methods for that, centralized or decentralized. It's less a matter of "do we have the technology/ingenuity" and more "can it defeat the massive network effects?"

                                                                                                                                                                  • krater23 35 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                    Sorry, but to host a small community on a v-server costs you today 3,50€ - 15€/month, when you can't pay that, you have other problems than the dying internet. It's not 1990 anymore...

                                                                                                                                                                    • johnnyanmac 28 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                      Small community, yes. If you want to replace a site on the scale of Discord or Facebook? It does get really expensive.

                                                                                                                                                                      Having everyone pay in is one strategy. But we have 30 years of people used to free and open mass communication. How many will give that up for proper freedoms and protection from state actors?

                                                                                                                                                                      Heck, it almost always seems like people give up freedoms whenever push comes to shove, no matter the industry or timeline.

                                                                                                                                                              • grishka an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                The fediverse already exists.

                                                                                                                                                                • johnnyanmac an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                  I have my small little groups. I've walked away from big sites constantly and this won't be an exception. Definitely going to cancel my Nitro today until/unless they revert this.

                                                                                                                                                                  But leaving is never free. There's a lot of gaming communities (especially niche subcommunities like emulation, speedrunning, modding, etc) that are mostly on Discord and not anywhere else. Many probably won't move. A lot of tribal knowledge will be lost as it's locked in these communities.

                                                                                                                                                                  Heck, even some FOSS communities communicate mostly on Discord. I have more faith they will move. But not all.

                                                                                                                                                                • erghjunk 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                  I have a similar story. I quit in like 2016 or so and 9ish years later I wanted to shop for a used car for my oldest kid. I know already, of course, that Facebook now holds a monopoly on peer to peer sales of goods like that so I tried to make a new Facebook account. I was denied at the creation and told I had to try again with a video of my face (which I begrudgingly did) at which point I was denied AGAIN and told there was no appeals process.

                                                                                                                                                                  • PaulDavisThe1st 44 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                    > a monopoly on peer to peer sales of goods like that

                                                                                                                                                                    I don't know ... around these parts (Santa Fe/ABQ) while Marketplace is very popular, Craigslist continues to be widely used for this, especially since an ever growing number of younger people are not on Facebook (either at all, or not regularly).

                                                                                                                                                                    • erghjunk 6 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                      I would be just fine with a return to Craigslist but it's still mostly useless in my neck of the woods despite once being the main (digital) tool for p2p sales.

                                                                                                                                                                  • lp4v4n 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                    My friend has a restaurant and showed me the ad he wanted to promote on Instagram about a pizza coupon was suspended for breaking the guidelines, they mentioned gambling or something. I was quite impressed. When you see that one of the "magnificent 7" is dysfunctional to that level, it's hard not to think we're living the last decades of American economic hegemony, by now propelled mostly by inertial monopolies than anything else.

                                                                                                                                                                    • elevation an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                      The big ad networks want a cut from business users and will actively suppress posts from business accounts that haven't paid up.

                                                                                                                                                                      But instead of paying Instagram for reach, consider taking the same budget and spending it delivering samples and coupons to other local businesses mid/late morning. Bonus points if you make the coupons unique for each delivery so you can track which local businesses are your biggest fans. Office managers are generally receptive to this kind of cold call and you can leave a catering menu. Catering gigs can keep your kitchen busy during the off hours.

                                                                                                                                                                    • jacobsenscott 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                      FB/Discord/etc were never the internet. They were walled gardens you could enter via the internet. This could be a revitalization of the internet - pushing people back to decentralized ways of communications.

                                                                                                                                                                      • cheschire 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                        Perhaps you may have not read about how Iran is moving to a whitelisted internet. Or perhaps you believe this will not happen in your country.

                                                                                                                                                                        However, “think of the children” will always result in more restriction in western countries, not less. We are watching countries prove that it works to isolate from each other. Europe is not isolating from America in exactly the same way, but is isolating business processes from American services.

                                                                                                                                                                        We are not on the cusp of the end of the internet, but the cliff sure seems in view to me.

                                                                                                                                                                        • owebmaster an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                          > Perhaps you may have not read about how Iran is moving to a whitelisted internet. Or perhaps you believe this will not happen in your country.

                                                                                                                                                                          I hope for it to happen in my country, with local companies and developers competing to create the new social networks. The current arrangement fine foreign entities too much power.

                                                                                                                                                                          • johnnyanmac an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                            > perhaps you believe this will not happen in your country.

                                                                                                                                                                            That would hurt billionaires in America, so I'm not too worried about that gaining traction in my country. Even if it ultimately becomes the next superpower regime.

                                                                                                                                                                            More relevantly, I wonder of such restrictions would impede the First Amendment even if they did want to try.

                                                                                                                                                                        • prophesi 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                          Had a similar experience after rejoining a few years ago. My account wasn't suspended for breaking guidelines AFAIK, but rather flagged as a suspicious account that required an upload of my face and driver's license. I think the account still exists in this limbo state because I'd rather not upload all of that to Facebook, and yet still not able to login to request for the account to be deleted.

                                                                                                                                                                          • monksy 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                            That won't guarentee that you get your account back. Many times it's used to permaban you later.

                                                                                                                                                                          • guerrilla an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                            Twitter (before Musk) and Facebook did the same thing to me... and that was a long time ago.

                                                                                                                                                                            Discord tried to do it to me a few months ago but I refused, contacted support instead. Eventually they made it work but it took forever. Lucky for me I hate Discord so tried to avoid it anyway.

                                                                                                                                                                            • johnnyanmac 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                              Yeah, same here. I tried logging in years back and they wanted my driver's license. My last comment must have been in 2013 or so.

                                                                                                                                                                              I don't see it as the journey's end. But it's gonna be a much quieter road if most people don't walk away from this stuff. Maybe that's for the best.

                                                                                                                                                                            • anon_cow1111 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                              It should go without saying but,

                                                                                                                                                                              *CANCEL YOUR NITRO SUBSCRIPTION NOW IF YOU'RE PAYING FOR ONE* (for whatever reason)

                                                                                                                                                                              This was just announced today and a flood of canceled payments within the next 24 hours are the easiest way to send a message. And also tell people on the servers you're on to do the same. It's not like they give you anything of real value for that money.

                                                                                                                                                                              • mkaic 23 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                Just cancelled mine after reading this comment, I only really cared about the bigger file uploads and the HD screen-sharing anyways and I can live without those.

                                                                                                                                                                                Now that I think of it, I bet I could host a decent instance of some open-source alternative in a public cloud for around the same cost as what I paid for Nitro ($100 a year)...

                                                                                                                                                                                • WhyNotHugo an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                  Discord has been immensely hostile to the public in general since forever, and people love to flock to it and throw money at the company behind it.

                                                                                                                                                                                  I don't expect the masses to change their incomprehensible habits just because of this.

                                                                                                                                                                                  • Choco31415 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                    It's not incomprehensible. Discord makes it so much easier to organize communities than most other platforms.

                                                                                                                                                                                    Telegram, Slack, Facebook, Team Speak, Reddit, GroupMe, nothing really offers the same feature set and ease of setup that Discord does.

                                                                                                                                                                                    • swiftcoder 14 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                      > nothing really offers the same feature set and ease of setup that Discord does

                                                                                                                                                                                      Apart from the open voice channels, what Discord features is Slack actually lacking? (and huddles can sub-in for voice channels much of the time)

                                                                                                                                                                                      • karaziox 2 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                        This doesn't feel like a real question... Slack free tier is basically crappy Discord, limited message history, no voice channels, huddles are also behind the paying tiers. It is basically worse on all aspects unless you start paying

                                                                                                                                                                                        • thinkling 6 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                          Most importantly, Slack limits the amount of message history you get to keep if you’re not paying. And the payment plans are per-user fees which quickly becomes non-viable for non-commercial use.

                                                                                                                                                                                    • bilekas an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                      Thank you for reminding me, I've been meaning to cancel for months but it's only 2.50EUR and having to sign into my apple account was such an effort I never got around to it.

                                                                                                                                                                                      • pipo234 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                        Not a subscriber, but I understand your call for retribution.

                                                                                                                                                                                        I suppose the silver lining is that they are putting the responsibility for age verification adults. Which imo is better than requiring everyone; kids get a free pass to the kids stuff...

                                                                                                                                                                                        • hahn-kev an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                          Yeah I agree. I actually see most of the stuff in the teens mode as a feature

                                                                                                                                                                                          • anon_cow1111 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                            I'll reply for both you and GPP,

                                                                                                                                                                                            I don't know if this will personally affect any servers I use since they're not obviously adult, but I assume the slope will be slippery and if they're doing a faceID system now it will only get worse. Article says "analyze a user’s video selfie, which Discord says never leaves the user’s device"

                                                                                                                                                                                            ...are they really going to implement a facial recognition algo in the browser, or is this a "download our app or fuck off" situation? I'm guessing the latter.

                                                                                                                                                                                            • johnnyanmac an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                              I pay for nitro as of now (not for much longer). If absolutely nothing else, I'm not going to give them monthly payments (which generally required a CC. Aka "I'm an adult") and still not be trusted to be an adult.

                                                                                                                                                                                              And that's the thing, these policies are always loose and will be abused.

                                                                                                                                                                                              - M rated game? Okay, it's adult only now. Sure.

                                                                                                                                                                                              - Emulators? Well they can play adult stuff. Now they just happen to add friction on something that is convenient for billionaire studios.

                                                                                                                                                                                              - LGBT content? Well you're talking about sexuality. Of course you need to be an adult. Here let's take face scans and totally not be a sitting duck for any malicious parties looking to identify traditionally disenfranchised people

                                                                                                                                                                                              The escalation is fairly obvious at this point. We've seen it happen in real time.

                                                                                                                                                                                      • bilekas 43 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                        When will it be normalized to be able to say "Parents should just be doing their job" before we decide to ruin everything online for everyone else.

                                                                                                                                                                                        Although I know it's not really about protecting the kids. I wonder if the politicians are exempt from this too as they were chat control.

                                                                                                                                                                                        > The scanning would apply to all EU citizens, except EU politicians. They might exempt themselves from the law under “professional secrecy” rules.

                                                                                                                                                                                        https://nextcloud.com/blog/how-the-eu-chat-control-law-is-a-...

                                                                                                                                                                                        What about my "PERSONAL SECRECY" ?

                                                                                                                                                                                        • janalsncm 5 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                          I have a friend who is a social worker. Hearing stories from them, I think people severely overestimate the level of involvement that many parents have with their kids.

                                                                                                                                                                                          If this is what it means for a parent to “do their job” then what do you propose happens to parents who are unwilling or unable to police their kids’ Discord account?

                                                                                                                                                                                          For this reason, I think we are seeing the beginning of the end of low-trust social media. They can’t tell if a user is a child or even a human. People will move to things like group chats because they don’t rely on sending your ID to a verification service in the Philippines.

                                                                                                                                                                                          • npunt 17 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                            Any idea that is based on "If everyone just..." is wishful thinking. Describe the mechanism by which you convince everyone to just do something.

                                                                                                                                                                                            • 2OEH8eoCRo0 3 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                              What's ruined by this? Honestly asking

                                                                                                                                                                                              • EduardoBautista 32 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                Saying parents should be doing their jobs will lose you votes, that's why. Anything that implies personal responsibility is political suicide.

                                                                                                                                                                                              • accrual 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                Here's the October 2025 Discord data breach mentioned at the end of the article:

                                                                                                                                                                                                https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c8jmzd972leo

                                                                                                                                                                                                > Discord, a messaging platform popular with gamers, says official ID photos of around 70,000 users have potentially been leaked after a cyber-attack.

                                                                                                                                                                                                However, their senior director states in this Verge article:

                                                                                                                                                                                                > The ID is immediately deleted. We do not keep any information around like your name, the city that you live in, if you used a birth certificate or something else, any of that information.

                                                                                                                                                                                                Why they didn't do that the first time?

                                                                                                                                                                                                • CGMthrowaway an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                  > The ID is immediately deleted. We do not keep any information around like your name, the city that you live in, if you used a birth certificate or something else, any of that information.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  Everyone says this, including the TSA. But they never say they don't keep a hash, or an eigenvector of your biometric. Which is equally as important.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  • hinata08 29 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                    They also never say it goes through datacenters in room 641A or though Utah before it's "deleted", because it's a US company and they can't refuse that.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  • pavel_lishin 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                    > The ID is immediately deleted. We do not keep any information around like your name, the city that you live in, if you used a birth certificate or something else, any of that information.

                                                                                                                                                                                                    This is also contradicted by what Discord actually says:

                                                                                                                                                                                                    > Quick deletion: Identity documents submitted to our vendor partners are deleted quickly— in most cases, immediately after age confirmation.

                                                                                                                                                                                                    What are the non-most cases?

                                                                                                                                                                                                    • rsynnott 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                      Also, _Discord_ deleting them is really only half the battle; random vendors deleting them remains an issue.

                                                                                                                                                                                                      • rockskon 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Not to mention collecting them at all means those servers are a primo location for state actors to stage themselves to make copies of data before being deleted.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        To say nothing of insider threats of which likely exist across every major social media platform in service to foreign govs.

                                                                                                                                                                                                      • throw20251220 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Since when the city one lives in is mentioned in the birth certificate?

                                                                                                                                                                                                        • smcin 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                          It was only one example they gave, and they accept multiple different types of ID; a driver's license or national ID card being other likely ones, and DLs do say where you live.

                                                                                                                                                                                                          • kvdveer an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                            None of those documents reliably state my city of residence. At best they document where I once lived, but not even that is guaranteed.

                                                                                                                                                                                                            • throw20251220 27 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                              What kind of tyranny do you live in? None of the documents I have on me say where I live.

                                                                                                                                                                                                              • swiftcoder 7 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                It's pretty standard in a lot of Europe, one is required to update ones license with each change of address (although many people don't).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                Along with such weird (to us) things as applying for an exit visa from your current town when you want to move to a new town...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                • throw20251220 5 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Which parts of Europe have a town of where the person lives on their driving license? And what do you mean by “us”?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • swiftcoder 3 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    My Spanish identity card has my full address. Not sure if the DNI does as well, or only the foreign resident version.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > And what do you mean by “us”?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    US folks are pretty used to being able to up and drive across the country with a suitcase, without filing any paperwork (at least till the taxman comes knocking next April)

                                                                                                                                                                                                        • debo_ 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                          I believe the original finding was that they were not deleting IDs that were involved in disputes.

                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Aurornis 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                            They explained it in their announcement at https://discord.com/press-releases/update-on-security-incide...

                                                                                                                                                                                                            TL;DR: The IDs were used in age-related appeals. If someone's account was banned for being too young they have to submit an ID as part of the appeal. Appeals take time to process and review.

                                                                                                                                                                                                            Discord has 200,000,000 users and age verification happens a lot due to the number of young users and different countries.

                                                                                                                                                                                                            • plorg 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                              Why should we suspect the age verification and age-related appeals would involve different teams or processes?

                                                                                                                                                                                                              • elpasi 32 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                Age verification is done by an iframe to k-id.com.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                Appeals are done in the actual Discord ticketing system.

                                                                                                                                                                                                              • reactordev an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                This is corporate cover speak for “we keep all data”

                                                                                                                                                                                                              • bilekas 41 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                Until we have some kind of "One Time ID Verification" service that would work, the ID will never be deleted. Or a hash of the info or some kind of identifiable info.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                • wolvoleo 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  And do they really actually delete it this time?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • varispeed 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > The ID is immediately deleted.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I call it bollocks. Likely they have to keep it for audit and other purposes.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • smaudet 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      "delete" doesn't mean delete anymore, like you say, there are always audit logs, and there is "soft" deleting.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Expect any claims that things are being deleted to be a bold faced lie.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • subscribed 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        They wouldn't _have to_, audit checks if you stick to law, your own policies and such, but I think they will.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • varispeed an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          So how do they prove they actually checked someone's age?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Gigachad 4 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            They don’t need to prove that. The government or whatever would have to prove that they aren’t checking ages, by going to the site and seeing a lack of age verification.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • lII1lIlI11ll 13 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              How does shop clerk proves they checked someone's age before selling them alcohol?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Hikikomori 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          >Why they didn't do that the first time?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The company they hired to do the support tickets archived them, including attachments, rather than deleting them.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • engineeringwoke 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Ah sorry our contractor did all that highly illegal stuff. Too bad we can't pierce the corporate veil anymore... shucks.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • malfist 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Ah, so it was the "staffer" excuse.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • hn_acc1 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                rogue engineer

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • joquarky 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                How convenient.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • observationist 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                They're a nonsense company, and trusting them with any information is foolish. They'll store everything and anything, because data is valuable, and won't delete anything unless legally compelled to and held accountable by third party independent verification. This is the default.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The purpose of things is what they do. They're an adtech user data collection company, they're not a user information securing company.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • _ink_ 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Compliance

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • reactordev an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Liars…

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • jm4 2 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    It took all of 2 minutes to delete my account and block Discord from my network. Credit to Discord for making the process very easy using the mobile app. I'm not going to put up with this crap just to occasionally use this app to play games with friends. My kids sure as hell aren't going to comply with this policy either.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • 8xeh an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      They'll have to "partner" with some company that's in the business of building a database of IDs and biometrics to do AI things with. Other companies in this space (Jumio) have a bad habit of ignoring privacy laws and will keep your information for years.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I wouldn't mind showing my ID to a person (in person), but there's no way I'm letting some company get a scan of my ID or passport to store in some giant database that's a rich target for hackers. Might as well give them access to all my bank accounts (Plaid) too.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      (It sure would be nice if there were a national privacy law in the US.)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Also, it's illegal for companies to use facial recognition in my jurisdiction, so if I allowed them to "verify" me, they'd be breaking the law.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • hinata08 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I hope Discord understands the risks they pose to their audience when they open source their IDs again.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Discord is used by a bunch of closeted users having pseudos, who wouldn't do the same activities on it if everyone had their names.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        A part of the Discord users is from countries from which Discord isn't even officially accessible (eg China) or where involvement in LGBT discussions could result to death row (Afghanis are still on Discord)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        For me, a company that open sourced 70,000 IDs and ask for moooooore just weeks later is just a joke about the sharing economy

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The problem isn't even for new users. Some users have over a decade of private hobbies and will now need to associate their governement ID to their profile. Discord pinky swears they ask but don't keep this time, which isn't enough.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Companies shouldn't be allowed to change such fundamental ToS after an account is created.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • modernerd 17 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Feels like there's space for self-hosted forum/chat software with:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Single binary to deploy (no Ruby/PostgreSQL requirements like Discourse).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Easy to host and maintain on a cheap server. (5-minute install, one-click self-updates or automated updates.)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Supports live text chat or traditional forum threads.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Supports private or public forums/channels, or a mix, you decide.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Invite-only registration by default, option for public registration.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Good enough at narrow screen widths and constrained connections at launch to be used on mobile. Options later for an API/apps.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Option for email service integration for transactional email because ensuring self-hosted email deliverability is not fun these days.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          - Option to offload image/media hosting to S3/Cloudflare R2 etc.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • bovermyer 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Ignoring the implications of this for the moment, let me broach a related (and arguably more important) question: what do you do when you have multiple communities you interact with only on one platform, and suddenly that platform becomes intolerable for a subset of your community?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • devsda 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              It is the same as what everyone did after the reddit fiasco i.e. protest, boycott, grudgingly use it while complaining and then finally accept the change.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              May be this discord episode will have better outcome for the masses.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Telaneo 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Reddit dropped a lot in quality after that. I suspect a lot of people stopped posting, even if they did continue using it in some capacity.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • ZeWaka an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I uninstalled it from my phone entirely. Definitely helped curb my usage.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • gbear605 30 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  For me, I just stopped using Reddit. Turns out that I’m happier without it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • JoeBOFH 13 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Hah I did the same thing. I only ever interact with it now when it appears in search results.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • esseph 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    That's not what happened with the X nonsense, a lot of people went to mastadon/bluesky.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • AnthonyMouse 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    It seems like the answer is pretty obvious. That subset of the community stops using it and uses something else, and the others either follow them or don't.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    You, if you're not in the first group, can continue to use both to communicate with everyone, but some of them lose the ability to communicate with each other.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    The ideal outcome is for everyone to stop using the intolerable thing and switch to a tolerable thing. That's even what often happens over time, but not always immediately. Probably do anything you can to make it happen faster.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • altruios 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      We start a new app. Opensource Discord, Self-hosted, federated. Serving that subsection that cares about privacy and security.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Discord is a good design, and should be replicated rapidly with mutations from competitors galore.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • debo_ 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Revolt/stoat has existed for quite a while: https://itsfoss.com/revolt/

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • TechniKris 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > Opensource Discord, Self-hosted, federated

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Sounds like you want https://matrix.org/

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > Discord is a good design

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Then the main, reference client https://element.io/ or https://fluffy.chat would work great for you.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        ... With the only caveat being that general experience of using Matrix is awful.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I second the other commenter's suggestion of using https://stoat.chat/ or as it used to be called: Revolt, which matches the "Opensource Discord" requirement perfectly.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • sneak 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Matrix is slow, buggy trash with bad clients.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          (Incidentally, this is also the incantation that will cause its primary maintainer to show up in the comment thread and tell me that I’m not using their seemingly annual complete new client rewrite that fixes all of the problems and makes it perfect now.)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • subscribed an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Bad clients issue stemming from the bad design.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Soatok covered it very well here: https://soatok.blog/2024/08/14/security-issues-in-matrixs-ol...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I'm quite sure most of these issues were fixed by now, but the fundamental issues remain, at least in this federation.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • johnnyanmac 14 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Pretty much why centralized billionaires will always win. It takes a lot of resources (in terms of hardware and engineering) to make things at scale and smooth. The rich abuse this, the not rich can't afford to be principled.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • johnnyanmac 17 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Try to tell them it's a bad idea. And be ready to leave that community if nothing changes. That's pretty much the way of life for an internet vagrant. Maybe you hope the community migrates too. Maybe you try to remake the community. But those aren't in your control.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I left Facebook, left Reddit (never really had a Twitter). This won't be different.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • 3acctforcom 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Remember when Tumbler banned porn? People migrated to other platforms like Reddit, and it died.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Musk being a Nazi made twitter lose big enough chunks of their community to start Bluesky. Not big enough to do any real damage to the platform, but it still provided critical mass to a fledgling app.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            WhatsApp having a sketchy relationship with the US government boosted Signal.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Sooooo, what is a good discord replacement?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • johnnyanmac 12 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Its hard to say. Reddit is still a shit show, but I still peer into niche communities you won't find anywhere else on the internet.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Discord is even more niche than that. There's tons of IRC esque group chats of that's what you need. But a community: not so easy to replace.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • bakugo 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              If this happened 15+ years ago, a huge chunk of the userbase likely would've migrated to alternatives, potentially resulting in Discord being replaced and falling into irrelevance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Today, though, no chance that happens. The current generation literally grew up with it, same for most of the other established social media apps. The concept of alternatives largely does not exist for them. And besides, they were probably already sending pictures of themselves and other personal data to each other through the app, so it's not like Discord doesn't already have all of that.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • ziml77 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                There's also people who have been through enough of these moves and community splits that they're incredibly tired of it all.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • johnnyanmac 10 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I'm always exhausted by a migration. But I don't move off because there's an easy alternative. There never is. I do it to maintain principles, even at the cost of my social circles.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • jackcviers3 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I mean, I grew up with AOL AIM, Yahoo Messenger, and IRC... yet I switched every time a new tech came out with more of my friends on it. Why do we think discord will be any more sticky than Digg or Slashdot, or any of the above?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  People will migrate, some will stay, and it will just be yet another noise machine they have to check in the list of snapchat, instagram, tiktok, reddit, twitter, twitch, discord, group texts, marco polo, tinder, hinge, roblox, minecraft servers, email, whatsapp and telegram, and slack/teams for work.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Absolutely exhausting to be honest.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • andrepd 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Kids today are alarmingly bad at technology. This is not a "kids these days" situation, this is absolutely true. They understand "tap on icon, open app, there's a feed and DMs".

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I mean it, the tech illiteracy of gen Z/alpha is out of this world, I did not expect a generation that grew up with technology to be so inept, but here we are. But they grew up with a 4x4 grid of app icons, not with a PC.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • nhhvhy an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I don’t think people understand the true level of tech illiteracy of Gen Z. A couple years back I did an internship with the IT guy at my high school, and the vast majority of the problems students had with the Chromebooks we used were, in no specific order:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        - Not understanding that a dead battery means it won’t turn on
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        - Trying to use them without an internet connection
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        - “The screen won’t work” when trying to non-touchscreen models like a tablet
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        - “I can’t see my stuff” when using the guest mode rather than their login, or when they used a PC and they couldn’t see the docs icon on their desktop
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      That’s not even to mention the abysmal typing skills of most students, so many 15WPM hunt-and-peck typers..

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      There’s a mountain of issues along those lines we ran into, and it was honestly frightening to watch.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • johnnyanmac 6 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Yeah, I work with kids and it's admittedly a bit disheartening having conversations like

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > why don't you make a separate account for your sibling

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > I don't know how to make an email

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > but you needed an email for your account

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > yeah, I just use my school email

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        By that time my age as a young teen I knew how to make new accounts and research what I didn't know. And I'm not sure of its my place to help them create an email without knowledge from their parents.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • subscribed an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Correct. From my personal experience (have kids and nieces/nephew this age), and all think an app is the thing that they scroll in, and any attempt to explain the very basics on internet connectivity, servers, databases, etc, ends up in them basically experiencing blue screen moment and backing away to the safety of the endless scroll.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The most complex concept they can understand is mail/post attachment or capcut, but then this is it. 10 minutes later they will download phone flashlight app that requires Google services for app delivery.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Shocking.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I ended up with refusing to help with anything related to technology in any other way than pointing to help/manual/search engines and asking questions.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • quotemstr 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    One of the starkest social desirability biases in tech is between federated and centralized platforms. Most people, in public, say they support distributed, federated systems, but when push comes to shove, they all use centralized platforms anyway.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • volf_ 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      atproto is a really good attempt at solving this issue

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • noosphr 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Shake your head and move on.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      It's not like we haven't seen closed source applications become hostile to their users before. And it's not like we didn't warn people about it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • andrepd 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        People tried warning that moving all your discussion forums into a proprietary, closed, unsearchable platform was a bad idea. And it was. But nobody cared.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • idatum 42 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I'm seeing Groups.io show up more for hobbies/interests I have. It seems email can be a way to slow down heated discussions. Perhaps at the expense of push-back on using more email?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Anyone have any experiences to share with moving their discussion groups from Discord to Groups.io?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • pyrolistical an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            So you want to go back to mailing list and run your own email server?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • frumplestlatz 24 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              No, we’d like to go back to the culture that created protocols to solve our needs, such that people could create interoperable servers and clients to implement those protocols.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • asveikau 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I think she is a polarizing figure to some, but journalist Taylor Lorenz has been complaining about this sort of thing for a long time. She has been increasingly warning about a future in which we need to scan IDs for all of our online services, in the name of protecting kids. (With the obvious implications about that data leaking, governments using it to track dissidents, etc.)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • AuthAuth 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Taylor Lorenz is a schizo who complains about all kinds of things. Her stance on digital ID is completely undermined by her support for authoritarian CCP style government control.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • bramhaag 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            What realistic open source alternatives to Discord are there? I'm currently considering moving to one of these with my friend group:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            - Matrix

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            - Stoat, previously revolt (https://stoat.chat/)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            - IRC + Mumble

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            - Signal

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • tgsovlerkhgsel 17 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I think Matrix is the closest equivalent that's reasonably popular, at least for text messaging. There are both web and mobile clients and they interoperate seamlessly. It's also at the point where it somewhat reasonably works for the average user, rather than being the usual UX nightmare that teaches people that anything open source or anything pushed by their nerdy friend should be avoided.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • buovjaga 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                For the latest in IRC tech, you can read my blog posts: https://www.ilmarilauhakangas.fi/irc_technology_news_from_th...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I wrote the summaries with my own two hands, no LLMs involved.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • arkh 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  One thing most of those lack is an easy way to share screen.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Now if anyone wants to differentiate their Discord alternative, they want to have most of discord functionalities and add the possibility to be in multiple voice chats (maybe with rights and a channel hierarchy + different push-to-talk binds). It's a missed feature when doing huge operations in games and using the Canary client is not always enough.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • ilikepi 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  This seems like a nice breakdown of some options:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  https://taggart-tech.com/discord-alternatives/

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  (Not affiliated)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • 3acctforcom 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Honestly, this is HN and founders should pay attention to this. People don't want to host their own shit, they want a one-click easy switch. All of these alternatives have baggage.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    This is your chance to start Bluesky for discord. A competently built, VC backed competitor to exploit a misstep only caused by government overreach due to their colossal market share. 26 million daily active users is a nice guaranteed market to start whittling away at, with an effective marketing campaign to drive a wedge between "little gamers, and big corporate enshittification."

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • skulk an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      > government overreach

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      How would you avoid the same problem that discord ran into that made them require ID verification? I doubt they're doing this for fun. Incorporate in the Bahamas?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Morromist 26 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        the largest block of discord users are from the US which hasn't got id verification laws regarding age for social media. The 2nd largest is brazil, which does, and the 3rd is India, which doesn't.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        So they are forcing users from countries that haven't passed these laws to abide by them. They don't have to do this, they could just require brazilians use face-id.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • jiffygist an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Discord's voice rooms with screen sharing is a very cool feature i depend on daily. I haven't seen opensource messenger that implemented this yet.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • JoshTriplett an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Jitsi handles this very well.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I personally would advocate the combination of Zulip for text chat plus Jitsi for calls and screen sharing.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • drzaiusx11 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Does matrix have decent 1:N client desktop broadcasting with low latency (and high fps) yet? I use discord for "watch parties", video and tabletop gaming...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • joquarky 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Which of these has been around for over three decades?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        That would be my answer.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • mrweasel 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Same, depends on what you expect in terms of features and so on, but for chat, IRC works perfectly.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • rickstanley 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I wonder how Stoat will fare, and how it is currently maintained, in terms of "making money"; my fear is that it would steer into the direction of Discord itself.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • OuterVale an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Currently financed on user donations. The future plan is to intoduce further features which are costly to provide behind a paywall to remain sustainable.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Schlagbohrer 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I have found Element and Matrix to be totally unusable in iOS

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • rsynnott 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Element’s awful, but I’ve found FluffyChat, another matrix client, to be a lot better, albeit with a very silly name.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • MYEUHD 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Snikket (https://snikket.org ) with Monal as the iOS client

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • subscribed an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Requires hosting of the private server (security/privacy implications) or renting it from the third party.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • ozlikethewizard 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Last I checked Signal was not fully open source, which is iffy, believe their encryption protocol is still closed. That said its the best of a bad bunch for E2EE messaging. If you're on android I'd recommend doing what I do, which is installing from the APK on the site, manually verifying the sig locally (you can use termux for this), and then lagging ever so slightly behind on updates to avoid potential supply chain or hostile takeover attacks. This is probably over cautious for most threat profiles, but better safe than sorry imo. Also their server side stuff is close sourced, technically this isnt an issue though as long as the E2EE holds up to scrutiny though.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Edit: My information may be out of date, I cannot find any sources saying any part of the app is closed source these days, do your own research ofc but comfortable saying its the most accessible secure platform.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • lostmsu 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Revolt's rename to stoat is probably worse than any rebranding MSFT done ever.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • rickstanley 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    It's because of the trademark: https://stoat.chat/updates/long-live-stoat

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Nevertheless, I don't like the new name either, oh well...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I like this comment though:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Imagine you make a free software project and it runs into trademark issues because people have more money than you to register in more classes than your project.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    And then even though your project existed first, they still come after you anyway.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    And from that an even more expensive rebranding from this as well.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    from: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45626225, not sure how accurate it is, but it makes me want to revolt .

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • rsynnott 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      "[beaver emoji] Revolt is Stoat now"

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Argh. If there's no stoat emoji, petition the Unicode Consortium for one, don't just use a beaver. It's not even the right family; the badger emoji would be closer.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • kibwen 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        It's open source, I'm tempted to fork it and do nothing other than change the branding.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • vagrantstreet 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Zulip?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • andreashaerter 24 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I keep wondering why Zulip is so often left out of reviews and tooling comparisons. For me it ticks a lot of important boxes, yet it barely gets mentioned. Is there a downside I'm missing, or is it just under the radar?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The concept that every message belongs to a topic and the async communication focus makes so much sense to me. I read conversations, not timelines.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • tabbott 16 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Sadly Zulip does not have a big marketing budget, and many reviews/tooling comparisons are paid for in some way, directly or otherwise, or are SEO spam that starts with reading other similar SEO spam.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            It is highly ranked on some platforms that do validated reviews, like Capterra.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            (I lead the Zulip project).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • x01 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          For me, the closest alternative to Discord is Stoat. Matrix with Element (or other clients) would be great, but it feels so slow on both desktop and mobile.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • encom 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            IRC was here before Discord, and it will still be here after.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I've never heard of Stoat. Looks like IRC but it's Electron. Total waste of time.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • joks 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              IRC does not support group voice & video calls, which is one of the primary features of Discord (and previously Skype, from which everyone migrated to Discord in the first place)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • ibejoeb 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                It's a viable system for the many open source software projects that collaborate over chat. Expo, Typescript, and Effect are relatively large examples. I'll participate there if available and I get locked out. Otherwise, I'll just use the stuff without contributing, no problem.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • joquarky 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Kids these days...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • ramon156 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Should be blame the majority of the users, or should we accept times change?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • mvdtnz 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  For most Discord users IRC simply does not have the feature set that people need. Basics like simple drag and drop media sharing, threaded conversations, emoji reactions and voice comms, up to more complicated stuff like screen sharing and video calling.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • areoform 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                There's a special phenomenon that happens as startups grow large. They begin to drift away from the ground truth of their product, their users and how it's used. It's a drift away from users. And a drift towards internal politics. A lot like Rasmussen's drift towards danger, https://risk-engineering.org/concept/Rasmussen-practical-dri...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                As startups grow beyond a critical threshold, they start to attract a certain type of person who is more interested in mercenarily growing within the company / setting themselves up for future corporate rise than building a product. These people play to the company's internal court and create deeply bitter environments that leads to more mission-driven individuals leaving the company.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Which is why we end up with decisions like OnlyFans hitting $1B / yr in revenue (with extreme profitability) off of porn and then deciding to ban porn, https://www.ft.com/content/5468f11b-cb98-4f72-8fb2-63b9623b7...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Or, Digg deciding to kill its "bury" button and doing a radical "redesign" that made Reddit worth billions.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Unity's decision to update its pricing. Sonos' app "redesign" etc etc.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Corporate vampires will cheerfully slaughter your golden goose. Or, in the best case, severely cripple it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • marcd35 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I think this decision is more defensive than "losing touch with their customers." The winds are shifting in other countries that are cracking down on social media use for children. Discord does not want to get caught in the shit storm of legal issues if they fail to comply. This is a proactive measure.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • areoform an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > this decision is more defensive

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    That is prioritizing internal politics over the realities of their product. The Discord userbase is young. And it serves a variety of use cases / the same account can be used to access open source communities, coordinate video game time with friends, interact professionally, and have a supercharged group chat for close IRL friends.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    In other words, Discord is the app where maladjusted early 20-something leaked classified data to impress his teenage friends. https://www.washingtonpost.com/discord-leaks/

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Any decision that isn't along the Apple's hard privacy stance lines, "we'll protect user privacy" is prioritizing the discomfort of that decision over the user base / use case.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • nemomarx an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      This is the real issue, and it's why just cancelling your discord subs and moving to stoat or etc isn't a solid long-term strategy. If KOSA passes in the us basically every platform will have to do something like this.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Morromist an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I think this is about "losing touch with their customers" and the need to IPO and make money from the customers.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The thing is, most of discords users are in countries which haven't yet passed laws that ban children from using apps like discord. If they were privacy focused they could do this only where the law requires it, like Australia.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Aerroon an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Yeah, this really seems like it's our politicians screwing us. The older I get the more harmful politicians seem to be.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • canada_dry 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          In pretty much all cases, the companies in question had peaked were experiencing declining growth and attempting to do a hail-Mary... and failed miserably.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Compare Digg and slash. One completely died, the other has stuck with its formula and hasn't disappeared, but has just faded into irrelevance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • tyleo 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I don’t think this is a phenomenon. At the best places I’ve worked, I’ve seen success correlated with actual user value. You do find climbers at certain places but I tend to think it’s a large reason they fail.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Also, I don’t think your OnlyFans analogy holds up. My understanding is that their threat to ban porn was a stunt. A pretty effective one.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • tyre 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Do you have reading on it being a stunt? That seems like a huge gamble. You’re basically inviting competitors and pissing off your supply (content creators.)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              If they view you as unstable, unreliable, or adversely motivated, they will look for alternatives to at minimum diversify. It’s their livelihood.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • tyleo 39 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I don’t know for sure but it’s been implied that it was an intentional action to garner public outrage at the banks who wanted to stop processing their transactions.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • guluarte 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              that's true, guilds moved to discord because it was easier to use than teamspeak

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Rooster61 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The sad thing is that I think many people will en masse pony up their ID or snapshot without a second thought. I'm not sure if enough people will refuse to actually force Discord to back off this decision (unless their idea is to grab as much data as possible at once with the understanding that they are going to back off either way).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • ntoskrnl_exe 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I don't imagine this was a 100% their decision, it's more like a response to the epidemic of all the world's governments suddenly coming up with adult verification schemes. Discord has already required it in some countries, and it's definitely easier to get everybody to verify themselves than require it on a per-jurisdiction basis. The personal data they get is a cherry on top.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Also, this is just the beginning, more social networks will require the same soon.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • pavel_lishin 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  They don't have to comply in advance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • accrual 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Especially if it's presented as a pop-up upon launching the app that suggests the user won't be able to talk to their friends/servers without showing ID. Carefully worded language would could spur some % of users to panic at losing years of history and immediately show ID. Folks with less privacy discernment hear "jump" and reply "how high".

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • joquarky 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > panic at losing years of history

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I used to be like that. It was unsustainable and ultimately mentally unhealthy.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • bsimpson 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Sounds like when Netflix reneged on family accounts.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I cancelled my account in protest, but their financials say they made money on the change (and thus all the execs are happy with it).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • wolvoleo 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I have done that for stripchat which was also requiring it. Not happy with it but I'd rather use a selfie than a whole ID document which includes an image anyway.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      The thing is, what other option do I have?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • pavel_lishin 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I'll continue using Discord in teen mode, I guess. I'd rather not lose the current connections & servers I have on there, and I'm not optimistic about people migrating away, especially non-tech people.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • superxpro12 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I get the draconian side of things, but I am also tired of thousands of russian, indian, domestic-funded etc. bots flooding the zone with divisive propaganda.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        In theory, this seems like it would at least be a step in the direction of combating disinformation.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I'm curious if there are any better ways to suppress these propaganda machines?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • JuniperMesos 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          How do I know that this message isn't divisive propaganda posted by a bot?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Joker_vD 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Because it's not posted by a Russian/Indian account, duh!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • joks 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I don't see how disallowing viewing "age-restricted" content through Discord without giving them your ID would have any impact on the spread of disinformation, outside of like, disinfo in the form or pornographic or gory images.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • boca_honey 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I was planning to do that. My work chat is on Discord. I am an adult. Google and Netflix have my legal name and credit card number. I don't see how Discord having my ID is any worse.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • janalsncm 13 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Medium term, moving to another platform is the best solution. In the short term, I think using some other platform for the locked features is best?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            For example, if we are in a server for coding, maybe we will have to use zoom or google meet as a stopgap. Curious if others have better alternatives.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Kim_Bruning an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              IIRC EU was going for a zero-knowledge-proof of age system, but I guess discord isn't going to be using that then. (I don't think the ZKP system is available yet)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              (here's part of it: https://digital-strategy.ec.europa.eu/en/news/commission-rel... )

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • diogenes_atx 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                To add context to the discussion, it is important to recall that Discord was reported to have recently filed paperwork with the SEC for an IPO [1]. Thus it seems likely that the real reason for the age verification (i.e., user identification) policy is to boost its perceived earnings potential among Wall Street investors. According to this theory, Discord is the new Facebook.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                [1] https://techcrunch.com/2026/01/07/discords-ipo-could-happen-...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • rsynnott 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  It's kind of surprising that no-one has really come out with a proper privacy-preserving approach to this yet. It is clearly _possible_; there are reasonable-looking designs for this. But no-one's doing it; they're just collecting photos and IDs, and then leaking them all over the place.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • triceratops 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Here's my solution: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46447282

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    The problem is privacy activists and free speech activists (though there's some overlap between the two they aren't the same) oppose age verification by any means since it has the potential to infringe on both ever so slightly. Meanwhile age verification gates are being demanded and thrown up all over the Internet at a frightening pace. So we get only the maximal data collection solutions implemented by people who don't give a shit about privacy or free speech. And the mass surveillance cheerleaders egg them on.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    If privacy and free speech activists understood that a proactive, privacy-preserving approach to age verification is the best outcome we'd be better off.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • JoshTriplett an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      You need to process that other people disagree with that claim, and do not believe we'd be better off.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      We should not accept the Overton window shifting here, and say "well, if we do it to ourselves, in a privacy-preserving way, that's less bad".

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • frumplestlatz an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > ever so slightly

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        It’s not “slightly”. They’ll start with claiming to protect people under 18 from obviously problematic content — porn, grooming, etc.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        It won’t stop there. The scope creep will extend to expressing or reading “incorrect” or “dangerous” views.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        They’ll probably call some of it “hate speech”, but hate speech is whatever the people in power say it is; on X, “cisgender” is designated as a slur and gets your post censored.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The slippery slope fallacy is only a fallacy if the slope isn’t slippery — “think of the children” is a wedge bad actors are once again trying to use to open the floodgates of censorship.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        They don’t even need to target adults; if you control what children can see and express, you have enormous control over all future generations of voters.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • tavavex 9 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I agree, but the powers that be loathe the phrase "hate speech". I'm betting the next encroachment will be on "violence", "terrorism" or even Russian-style "promotion of nontraditional values".

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • AJ007 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        It is only a matter of time before ID verification means the camera is always on watching the face of the person looking at the screen.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • squeegmeister 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          https://www.apple.com/newsroom/2025/06/apple-expands-tools-t...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          What are your thoughts on Apple's approach? You still have to provide your birthdate to apple. But after that, it only only ever shares your age range with other companies that request it, not your birthdate.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • frumplestlatz 36 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            This is great, but if and only if it remains an opt-in choice that enables parents.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            There is a stark difference between enabling choice or compelling it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Somehow in the last 15 years, we have completely lost sight of agency-based ethics as a founding and fundamental principle of western liberalism.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            This has been replaced with harm-based ethics. Harm has no fixed definition. There is no stopping rule — when will we have eradicated enough harm? It’s declared by fiat by whoever has the means to compel and coerce — and harm inherent in that enforcement are ignored.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • jeltz 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            They do not want to solve the problem, they want to collect our IDs. If they would have wanted to actually solve it they would not have done this on legislations where it is not a requirement.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Sohcahtoa82 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              > It is clearly _possible_

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Is it?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I don't think it is.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I truly don't believe that there's any possible way to verify someone's age without collecting ID from them.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • davidczech 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                It would seem like a naive solution would be some arrangement where Discord would ask for a proof-of-age from an official service ran by the State (which issues your ID)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • 0x3f 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Well you could have government-run cryptographically signed tokens. They're already in the business of holding ID data (i.e. they don't need to collect it and this wouldn't increase the attack surface).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  But assuming it has to be a private solution, you could do the same thing but make it a non-profit. Then at least _new_ services you wish to use don't need to collect your ID.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • rcxdude 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    It's possible to (cryptpgraphically verifiably) split up the age verification and the knowledge of what the verification is for.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • orthogonal_cube 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    As others have said, it’s obvious that no real attempts have been made by anyone to create a privacy-focused solution because the end goal is to collect photo IDs.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Occasionally in my free time I have been tinkering with a certificate-based solution that could fulfill this sort of need for age verification. It’s not the most robust idea but it’s simple enough using most of what we already have. Creating a minimal protocol which doesn’t share actual identifying information nor metadata of the site you’re accessing is trivial. If I can make an 80% solution in less than 100 hours of my free time then some groups with more money and intelligence could propose a dead-simple and easy-to-adopt solution just as easily.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Etheryte 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      No privacy is simpler and the simpler solution is cheaper. If there's no real incentive to go with another option, companies will go with the cheaper option.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • docmars a minute ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      This is such a huge mistake, Discord. Hopefully enough people put a lot of pressure on them to reverse this.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • smcleod an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I truly do hope this sinks Discord. It's a dreadful platform and an information black hole.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • sejje 29 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Wow.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          On one hand, I'm not surprised.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          But on the other hand-- I would be terrified to be in charge of a company who needed to make this ask. It's just such a big deal, such an important bit of information to protect from hacks.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I hope they lose most of their customer base. But I'm terrified they won't.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The gradual erosion of privacy is no longer gradual.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • haritha-j 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            > and will see content filters for any content Discord detects as graphic or sensitive.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I didn't even realise discord scans all the images that i send and recieve.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • pixl97 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Really I've come to the conclusion that anything I send out of my LAN is probably kept on a server forever and ingested by LLMs, and indexed to be used against me in perpetuity at this point, regardless of what any terms or conditions of the site I'm using actually says.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • kmfrk 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Speaking of hosting, Discord used to be one of the biggest (inadvertent) image hosts, so they might have set up the system to reduce legal exposure than to monitor conversations per se.[1]

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                A lot of the internet broke the day they flipped that switch off.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Weren't external Tumblr hotlinks also a thing back in the day?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                [1]: https://www.reddit.com/r/discordapp/comments/16uy0an/not_sur...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • palata 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  To be fair, the terms and conditions probably say that they can do whatever they want with that data :-).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Gud 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Don’t forget all the government creeps snooping on the wires.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • xnx 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Until the current administration, I was much more bothered by private misuse/abuse of date than the government. Now I worry about both.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • kmijyiyxfbklao 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Good. Being OK with authoritarianism because they are on your side is never good.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • raw_anon_1111 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          That was always the wrong threat model hierarchy. I have always been more concerned what the federal, my state and my local government can do when given more power/informstion than the federal government

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Gud 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Why? People who volunteer to work for these government drag nets must be total psychos.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • pixl97 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Volunteer? I mean they do get paid.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The thing is it's a mix of both.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              You have the fervent that love recording everything "for the good of the people". But then you'll just have piles of people with separation of duties that do things with very little understanding of where they fit in the process and very little care to.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • joquarky 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                We gave those brogrammers the keys to the machine when we made programming more accessible.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • jsheard 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Pretty much every non-E2EE platform is scanning every uploaded image for CSAM at least, that's a baseline ass-covering measure.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • mapt 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            And E2EE platforms like Mega are now being censored on some platforms specifically because they're E2EE, and so the name itself must be treated as CSAM.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            As people who want to talk about words like "megabytes" or "megapixels" or "megaphones" or "Megaman" or "Megan" on Facebook are finding out.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • lpcvoid 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Well it's not E2EE, so what did you expect? Nothing you do on Discord is private, everything is screened, categorized and readable by third parties.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • RegnisGnaw 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              They have to at least for CSAM.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • palata 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Everything that is not end-to-end encrypted understandably has to do it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • apazzolini 27 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Based on the (lack of) people I see refusing the optional facial recognition check at the TSA checkpoint for flying, I can't imagine this will be anything other than an overwhelming success for Discord and the surveillance state.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • lacoolj an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  So how do we know (other than obvious, NSFW servers) if we are in a server that is not "teen appropriate"? I don't feel the need to prove I'm old af, so if I'm in a server for sports betting, is that not teen appropriate? What about a pokemon server with a lot of swearing? Or just a custom server made by a friend for web dev, but has lots of random politics thrown around?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I really just don't know what isn't "safe" for teens, so hopefully this will be pretty clear somewhere.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • drzaiusx11 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    F** that, guess I'm leaving that platform too now...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • boca_honey 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I think this will be the kneejerk reaction of many, but then you'll have to face the consequences (de facto social isolation) and probably acquiesce. I had the same reaction when platforms started asking for my cellphone number... after some years I just started giving it to them. Now I don't even think about it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • lpcvoid 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Then you decided to cave in and forego your privacy. Don't assume others will falter in the same fashion.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • boca_honey 12 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Not everyone, but most people. Privacy has been around for a century, at most. I'm fine with it going away. This neurotic overprotection of personal data is just you all larping as super spies. Too many hacker movies, dude.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • jesse_dot_id 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Your solution is subservience.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • boca_honey 15 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Read again, I never said it was a solution. I said I don't care.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • kyboren an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            "I used to resist the boot, too. Then I was successfully conditioned by the environment that's been engineered around me. Now I just lick it subconsciously."

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • boca_honey 9 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I also thought like you when I was in my 20's. However... the addolescent need to "rise up" is the first thing to go when you actually start a family and develop a well balanced social network. If you play your cards right, soon enough, you won't care about all this.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • sneak 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I don’t sign up for those accounts, and I change my mobile number every 90 days.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • titaniumtown an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Every 90 days? Wow. Can you elaborate on how that logically works? Like what about for doctors offices having your number on file and other similar situations.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • boca_honey 7 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  He doesn't have the kind of life you and I have. He is probably convinced someone is out to get him. No medical records, no kids, no library card, etc. I've seen some cases like his.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • hiprob 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Are they going to leak IDs of minors again like they did last time? Who does this protect exactly?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • malfist 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              It protects the investors so they can IPO

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • dgxyz 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              My social group are moving to a private IRC server already. This is probably the best outcome really. I don't think any of us are under 50. But we have relatives who remember when this would have resulted in some of us being killed. I wish I was sensationalising but I'm not.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • bitbytebane 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Discord has always been IRC with extra censorship and spying. Nothing really new, here. Just use IRC.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • JoshTriplett 40 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  If you have any hope of replacing Discord, you need to actually understand Discord. Among many other things, people use Discord because it has persistent history, integrated images and videos, video and audio calls, and screen sharing.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • jusgu 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    it’s not that simple. many (if not most) people would rather be where everyone already is, even if there’s less privacy

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • AuthAuth an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      IRC sucks tho. It doesnt have half the features that make discord enjoyable.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • vkou 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        If you can't think of good reasons for why someone might use discord over IRC, you probably haven't thought about this enough.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • nottorp 39 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        And how much does Discord commit to paying in damages if my face scan or ID scan leaks from their servers? Via security vulnerabilities or employees making some money on the side?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • bigbuppo 35 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          People have dropped platforms en masse over lesser things. This is not going to go well. Are they even going to make it to their IPO?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Venn1 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I set up a forum when I started my site for Linux content creation. Discord had become a black hole for technical know-how on a scale IRC could never dream of, and finding answers to common questions was nigh impossible since the technology has changed and the modern way to solve problem X was never asked in a forum and never indexed by a search engine. Granted, Reddit provided a bit of a stopgap over the last decade, but the solutions in the comments these days are more often than not a confidently incorrect copy-pasta from GPT.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I use Discord for chat and voice calls since that is what I expect from a chat app, but the amount of companies that have built their community / knowledge base / support system around Discord is worrying. You know they can just delete that, right?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I'll continue to use Discord for chat until prompted to put my face in the hole :)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • nunez 20 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Discord's about to Tumblr over themselves with this one.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • hoistbypetard 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                In case anyone else can’t read it: https://archive.is/PvpAx

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • 0cf8612b2e1e 39 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                So, I can still watch porn without uploading a copy of my face, but if I want to discuss Call of Duty, we need to check if the Man says it is ok?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • jonstaab an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  FOSS, optionally self-hosted alternative built on nostr: https://flotilla.social/

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • bilekas an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    So a good EU OpenSource alternative : https://stoat.chat/ formerly known as Revolt.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • iugtmkbdfil834 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      It was nice while it lasted. Account removed. I understand the rationale and I don't care anyway. It is a shame, because one of the niche forums I was occasionally visiting there does not offer other locations.. but I would like to think this may change people's mind.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Yay to further fragmentation:D

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • storus an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I use Discord to talk to university students (top 10 in CS) and it only works with university email. I am wondering if I am going to be treated as <13 from now on as well or if they waive it in our case.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • jcranmer 32 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          It is possible for 12-year-olds to attend university.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • elephanlemon 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Great news, there’s finally going to be sufficient motivation for people to both build out and use open source alternatives.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • delegate 35 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            One thing that could happen is that someone might decide to vibe code a Discord clone, without all the extra crap. I'm sure there are people out there doing this already.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            There's this interesting arc of growth for apps which are successful. At first users love it, company grows, founders get rich, they hire expensive people to develop the product and increase revenue until eventually the initial culture and mission is replaced by internal politics and processes.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Software starts getting features which users don't want or need, side effects of the company size and their Q4 roadmap to 'optimize' revenue|engagement|profits|growth|...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Users become tools in the hands of the app they initially used as a tool. This model worked well so far and built some of the biggest companies in history.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            AI could make this business model less effective. Once a piece of software becomes successful and veers off into crap territory, people will start cloning it, keeping only the features that made that software successful initially. Companies who try to strong arm their users will see users jump ship, or rather, de-board on islands.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            At least I hope this will be the case.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • oth001 33 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              And I'll be uninstalling and looking for an alternative

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • nickstinemates 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Key changes are

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                - ID verification to see porn on Discord.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                - Also, some warnings to not befriend stangers.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Not very heavy handed, you can google porn anytime. I am not sure who this serves.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • WorldMaker 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  It serves UK, EU, and various US States' regulations to "protect the kids".

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Discord is only the next biggest canary in the coal mine. These regulations are going to force a lot more websites and apps to do this, too.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I wish these sorts of regulations had been written hand-in-hand with a more directly technically-minded approach. The world needs a better technical way to try to verify a person's estimated age cohort without a full ID check and/or AI-analyzed video face scan before we start regulating "every" website that may post "adult content" (however you choose to define that) starts to require such checks.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • serf 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  to everyone that tried to persuade me to move my projects from forums to discord :

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  phpBB never made me scan my face.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • mlsu an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    This is coming for all web-based services soon. Don't think for a second it's just Discord.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    It's just a small step ahead of "phone number required" auth.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • SirensOfTitan an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I miss the era of Internet forums. They didn’t need to be federated, just simple deployments of MyBB, vBulletin, PHP, Xenforo and so on.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I made a lot of friends on those communities growing up, and it inspired me to go into software because I saw how it brought people together.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      And I still sorely miss the WhatCD forums. While I didn’t make any friends there, it shaped my early experiences with music which still reverberates through me today.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Even with the reinvigoration of new ideas from LLMs, tech feels like it has been languishing for well over a decade at this point. The playbook is to disrupt traditional industry at a loss, then enshittify when competitors are gone. A lot of tech plays really feel like some form of: bring the yellow pages into the digital realm and overcharge for facilitating that access. Finding a firm that even uses AI outside of a chatbot UX is rare.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • duncanscomments an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        >And I still sorely miss the WhatCD forums. While I didn’t make any friends there, it shaped my early experiences with music which still reverberates through me today.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Could not relate to this more. Spent my formative years in those forums and they genuinely helped mold many of the tastes and interests that have stuck with me into adulthood. Not to over-romanticize, at the end of the day it was just a forum on a music tracker - but the sense of community and sheer diversity of thread topics made it such an interesting place to peruse.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Discord certainly has its applications. But since it became the defacato community tool, I find it essentially useless. Discussions are ephemeral (from a UX standpoint at least), and much more constrained. Its difficult to lurk and only chime in now and then unless you're regularly online.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • sph 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Good riddance Discord. Any alternative for the masses?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        They’re not gonna use Slack or phpBB.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • apopapo 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Why would Slack not be affected by the same stupid laws?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • tavavex 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            If you're a Slack user, I don't think they need your ID to tell that you're an adult

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            More seriously, it will become a problem on there is a significant user migration to there and a repeat of the mass hysteria. Due to being more niche, these smaller platforms are probably not in danger right now.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • m132 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          There's a bright side to this. With people getting used to every website casually requiring a face scan and ID pic, setting up phishing campaigns and opening rogue bank accounts is going to become easier than ever.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • eshack94 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Is this the final straw that kills their platform?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • jsrcout 13 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              ENOPE.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • unixhero an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Good to reduce fraud, isn't this zero trust in pracice.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • poidos an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Been meaning to cancel nitro and move off to Matrix or something, thanks for the push Discord!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • 0x_rs 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I predict out-of-the-box deepfake live-camera software will get a bump in popularity, there's already plenty solutions available that need minimal tinkering. It should be trivial to set up for the purpose of verification and I don't see those identity verification providers being able to do anything about it. Of course, that'll only mean stricter verification through ID only later on, much to the present-and-future surveillance state's benefit.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    https://github.com/hacksider/Deep-Live-Cam

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Insanity 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      To be honest it kinda sounds like a benefit for my use-case. I don’t engage with adult content on there and use it for one server with friends.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      And this will reduce spam from random accounts. Will see if it remains usable without uploading my Id.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • hxegon 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Honestly I think this is necessary. I'm not sure how heavy handed their exact implementation of stuff like content filtering would be, but I've seen way too much sketchy stuff on discord servers. Predators, blackmail, harassment campaigns, it's not great and a lot of the servers I'm in already require ID verification by mods to even chat in general. It'd be great if this was opt-in on a server by server basis but I could see that being a problem too.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I've seen way too many governments / companies use "protect the children" as a way to try and push overreaching garbage policy, however I think this one actually might help.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        That said, depends on exact details of how they want to do this. We'll see how it goes.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • sneak 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Showing ID doesn’t stop crime or criminals, or stop fake accounts.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I’m simply going to scan someone else’s ID to keep my account.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • reactordev an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          So glad I never put my eggs in the discord basket

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • palata 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            > Users who aren’t verified as adults will not be able to access age-restricted servers and channels

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I genuinely wonder which proportion of the users want access to age-restricted servers and channels...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Feels like it should be just fine not to verify the age.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • pteraspidomorph 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Here's how Discord works. A third or so of its features, such as forum channels (EDIT: I think this specific example was wrong; stage and announcement channels, but not forum channels) or role self-assignment, are locked behind Community Mode. After enabling Community Mode, server owners are NOT ALLOWED to turn off content filtering anymore, meaning that by default, content in every channel may be filtered out by systems you cannot configure.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The only way for the server owner to circumvent the filter is to mark a channel as "NSFW", which doesn't necessarily mean the channel actually contains any NSFW content.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              This change will not actually require ID for content confirmed to be NSFW. It will require ID for each and every "NSFW mode" (unfiltered) channel. The end result is that you have three choices:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              - Ditch Discord features implemented in recent years (or at least this is currently possible) - this prevents a server from being listed as public;

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              - Require ID checks from all your users (per channel);

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              - Have everything scanned from all your users (per channel).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • palata 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Are you saying that you can "mark" the channel as "NSFW", and Discord will stop scanning your content, possibly allowing you to share very illegal content through their servers?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Sounds weird to me. Pretty sure that they legally have to make sure that they don't host illegal content. Or does "NSFW" enable some kind of end-to-end encryption?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • pteraspidomorph 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  That has always been the case, yes, though I'm not sure what you mean by "illegal" content. There is only a small overlap between NSFW and illegal content, and the NSFW filter has never been concerned with, uh, violating photograph copyright or something.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  You don't have to take my word for it, just check it yourself, although it seems that this week, they renamed the NSFW setting to "Age-Restricted Channel" (in preparation for this change, no doubt). The verification-related portion of the behavior I described was implemented for the UK months ago.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  The description still contains: "Age-restricted channels are exempt from the explicit content filter."

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  EDIT: IANAL (or american) but if Discord was policing content for legality rather than age-appropriateness, wouldn't they lose DMCA Safe Harbor protections?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • palata 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > The description still contains: "Age-restricted channels are exempt from the explicit content filter."

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Wait! This does not mean they do not scan it. What I understand from that statement is that they filter explicit content, as in they prevent it from appearing on the user's screen.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    When you enable the "NSFW" mode, you tell Discord "it's okay, don't filter out anything". But Discord probably still scans everything.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    So that makes sense to me: if you don't validate your age, then Discord will not allow you to join channels that disable the "adult" filtering. I can personally live without adult content on Discord...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • pteraspidomorph 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      OK, but you're not the one making that decision and you don't know/can't control how that decision is being made.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • palata an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Well you're not using Discord in the hope that they are censorship-resistant, are you? :-)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        They can read everything that you send already, if your problem is that they may filter something that they consider NSFW and you don't... well I am not sure how big of a problem that is.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • mjr00 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                > I genuinely wonder which proportion of the users want access to age-restricted servers and channels...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Way more than you think. There are tons of Discord servers that only exist to share pornography.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • oth001 30 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Also curious how people like Epstein and James Alefantis are just casually using Gmail and Instagram to post CSAM and suggestive torturing of kids. Seems like the onus should be on the companies, not the users..

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • palata 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I wonder if Discord is legally forced to do that, or if they would rather do it themselves (and collect the data $$$) rather than wait to be imposed a solution they don't own.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I feel like age verification will come, there is no way around it (unlike ChatControl and the likes, age verification seems reasonably feasible and has a lot of political traction right now).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  But I would rather have a privacy-preserving solution for that, e.g. from the government (which already knows my age).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • WorldMaker 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Discord is just the next biggest canary in the coal mine of increasing regulatory pressure in the EU, UK (which has had this Discord verification for months now due to laws there), and various US states.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I do wish that the lawmakers had worked more hand-in-hand with technical exports on more privacy-preserving solutions ahead of enforcing these laws. But Discord is doing this because enforcement has already started.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • anonymousab 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      There are probably enough regions where it is required or will be required soon, that it makes sense to just get it over with.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      The Internet is more or less becoming a locked down, controlled and fully observed thing for end users and citizens, so adapting to that world sooner and working within it is just sensible future-proofing.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      This also lets them more safely target older users with ads, purchase requests, etc. and new integrations for gambling and other high ROI systems.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • selfhoster11 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        GeoIP this nonsense. Legal liability is solved as a "good-faith effort" and those living in jurisdictions where this doesn't apply (or use a VPN) don't need to be stripped of privacy.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • plagiarist 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Privacy preserving between you and the third party, but the implication is that the government now sees what you are using.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • palata 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          > but the implication is that the government now sees what you are using.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          No. The whole point of privacy preserving technology is that they don't.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The idea is that the government checks your identity (they know who you are) and give you an anonymous cryptographic proof that you are above, say, 18. They don't know what you do with it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          You give this cryptographic proof to Discord, and they know that if you have access to that proof, then you have access to someone who is above 18. They don't know who you are.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Sure, you could ask an adult to give you a token. But you can also ask an adult to buy you alcohol or to do the age verification scan for you.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • plagiarist an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            You cannot automate adults buying alcohol from a single ID for all the children in the nation.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            If age tokens are truly anonymous, what's the solution for preventing a single person from generating and selling them to whatever child wants one?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • cbold 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        When the openclaw/moltbook fad dies, those Mac mini's could be repurposed for a p2p forum network.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • kmnc 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          “We will find ways to bring people back” yeah because that usually works. I imagine this gets rolled back or siloed to only adult specific channels.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • instagib 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Credit card verification not an option.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Facial video estimates or submit an id card.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Option 3: if we analyze all of your data we have and see you are not going to bed at 8pm for middle school, you get adult status.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • tonymet 31 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I know Discord is popular, but I've tried about 3 dozen servers on a ton of hobby topics (linux , raspberry pi, golang, various games, politics) and I've found the caliber of conversation to be very poor. Nothing like forums, stack exchange or even reddit (especially pre-2012) in terms of topic focus, support quality, creativity, technicality. Convos tend to be banal, cliche, monoculture.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I would love to hear a testimony from someone who finds their Discord servers to be edifying or uplifting. What worked?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • chickensong 17 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                It excels for small communities, groups of friends and the like. My IRC channel migrated because it's user friendly, embeds images, and voice chat is a breeze.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • rdudek 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Genuine question, what is stopping users from using AI to generate a fake face or ID to bypass this restriction?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • anonymousab 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  There is a bit of an arms race between id verification systems and users bypassing them when AI gen. Which is really just ai generated images vs. AI generated image detection.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  In practice, nothing will stop it, the tooling will gradually get better at detecting prior fakes and banning those users while the newer fakes will go undetected for longer.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Putting up the requirement satisfies their CYA requirements here. The race between AI fraud vs. detection is something they can just ignore and let happen on its own.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • akersten 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > prior fakes

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    But they assured me my biometrics are deleted after uploading!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • stemlord 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Curious how this will affect midjourney's earnings

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • dvngnt_ 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    what is the relation?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • codergautam 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Midjourney is primarily a Discord bot that generates images from text prompts within the Discord app. Now many paying Midjourney users could be forced to verify themselves.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • hollow-moe an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Glad I left months ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • toephu2 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Glad I never signed up to begin with

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • keithnz 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      lot of people complaining, but, seems like they rolled it out already in UK and Australia... no real complaints I know of, and I'm in NZ and are on NZ/Aussie discords. Also teen mode doesn't actually seem that restrictive. Seems an ok move to me. But for whatever reason people seem to froth at the mouth when it comes to discord on here.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • rwmj 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I have a discord account that I use very rarely, and just tried it (from the UK) and it didn't ask me for any ID or face scan. If they do start doing that, I'll simply stop using the service.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • psychoslave 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I'm so glad I always refused to accept this one.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I don't know what people need as lesson. We already have so many FLOW options, and yet they are so many running after the last shiny ready for enshitification ready to go platform.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Expect them to sell your whole life to whatever party with enough money to throw at their face.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • sheikhnbake 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I foresee Discord receiving a lot of identification documents from the likes of Ben Dover

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • moi2388 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Calling it right now. There will be a data breach and we’ll find out they in fact did not delete the ID data.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • jszymborski 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              So my friend group has been looking for alternatives for a while now that feel like discord, works on mobile and desktop, and has voice chat.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I use Signal but the UI is very different from Discord.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I've had very mixed experiences with Element + Matrix, Element keeps crashing on mobile, and while voice chat kinda exists in Element it's not been great imho.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I looked into hosting Rocket.chat, Zullip, and Mattermost but from what I recall voice + mobile were either missing or paywalled at a per-user price.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Any recommendations?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • tmtvl 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I seem to recall Jitsi working pretty well.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • jszymborski 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Jitsi is great but the element integration felt clunky. Maybe I'll have to revisit it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • brushfoot 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                > Content Filters: Discord users will need to be age-assured as adults in order to unblur sensitive content or turn off the setting. [1]

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                That presumably includes selfies?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                That means that to exchange racy photos on Discord, each person must first record a facial age estimation video or upload identification documents.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                That seems dystopian.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                1: https://discord.com/press-releases/discord-launches-teen-by-...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • gjsman-1000 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  How do you know one party isn’t 15 when the other is 25?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  You’re never going to convince a parent or a lawmaker or even me that this is dystopian. Seems like a perfectly reasonable safeguard.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • brushfoot 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    > How do you know one party isn’t 15 when the other is 25?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    You don't. That's why parents need to be involved in their children's lives.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    CSAM is the easy excuse, anyway. That's the one lawmakers use, and most people are against CSAM, myself included, so the excuse goes down easy. But the impetus they don't talk about is monitoring and control.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    The answer isn't to destroy privacy for everyone. The government and these corporations don't need to know what you're doing every second of the day.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • gjsman-1000 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      > That's why parents need to be involved in their children's lives.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Can't, aren't, look at iPad kids, won't. This is about as logical as saying people should just drive safely, so we don't need guardrails and seat belts. Or saying parents should always watch their children, so we don't need age verification at the alcohol store. Besides, it's not like the school library or the friends of friends don't have devices themselves you as a parent can't see.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Parents should not need to be tech experts or helicopters to feel their kids are safe online. That's fundamentally unreasonable. In which case, privacy and child safety need to come to an unhappy compromise, just like any other conflicting interest.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      For that matter, I'm surprised that HN automatically always accepts the "slippery slope" fallacy while lambasting it everywhere else.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • tavavex 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > This is about as logical as saying people should just drive safely, so we don't need guardrails and seat belts.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        This is a terrible analogy. Regulations related to driving only apply to drivers, if you're a pedestrian then you're not subject to basically any regulations that licensed drivers have to abide by. On the other hand, internet regulation like this punishes absolutely everyone to safeguard a small group, that being parents. It's like legally forcing pedestrians to wrap themselves in bubble wrap while outside so the careless drivers who couldn't behave don't dent their cars and get hurt when a pedestrian flies in their windshield, when they inevitably collide with one of them. Why is any of this their responsibility?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The fact that there is absolutely zero effort in pursuing any non-punitive options (like forcing ISPs to put networks of clients with kids in child-friendly mode, where the adult has to enter a password to temporarily view the unrestricted internet on their network, which should cover 90%+ of cases; or doing any of the proposed non-identifying proofs of age, like a generic "I'm an adult" card you can buy at the convenience store) should tell you that this has very little to do with actual concern for children. They went out of their way to enact the least private, most invasive, most disruptive option, which will not even work better than any privacy-friendly options, unless you expect literally every website on the internet to be compliant. Teens are smart, they'll be able to find any holes in that system, just like the generations before them.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        > For that matter, I'm surprised that HN automatically always accepts the "slippery slope" fallacy while lambasting it everywhere else.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Slippery slope arguments are not automatically a fallacy. They can be if the causative relationship is weak or if the slope is massively exaggerated. But if neither of these things are true, "slippery slopes" is just looking at the trends and expecting them to continue. You can't look at a linear graph and say "well, I think there's no most likely option from now on, it could go any way really" without an argument for why the trend would suddenly deviate. The internet had been tightening up and the walls have been closing in for a long time, why would that change?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Kim_Bruning 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      They'll now have kompromat associated with a name, address, and id number (be it social security, BSN, or whatever your country calls it)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • anon_anon12 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Another company jumping on the bandwagon to data-farm in the pretext of safeguarding children. I really wonder if there's an actual method to actually safeguard children while also not holding on to data. Because, genuinely, you can't question this.. Companies would just say "we are trying to protect kids" and that'd be the end of the argument.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • itsmorgantime 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I really wonder if when this is fully implemented if they will have any safe guards against selling "adult verified" accounts. With AI being a possible work around for those who don't want to share an ID, selling accounts would be another big issue unless they check for IP addresses and block based on locations and logins. EDIT: I see in another comment that its against TOS to sell accounts, I doubt that has stopped anyone before though.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • jesse_dot_id 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      No thanks

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • ethin 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        You have got to be kidding me. What is it with these lawmakers and websites demanding people do all of this stuff using services that nobody has ever heard of? I myself (as someone who is blind) have never been able to do the face scanning thing because the information they provide (for, you know, getting my face focused) is just massively insufficient. And a lot of the ones I've seen also require me to (as an alternative) do some weird ID scanning with my camera instead of, you know, just allowing me to upload my ID or something? (Then again, I really wouldn't want to give my ID to some service nobody has ever heard of either, so there.) I also am concerned when tfa says "a photo of an identity document" what does this mean? If I have to scan my ID with my camera, that's not exactly going to be simple for me to pull off. I get that we need to protect kids, but this is not the way. Not when it is discrimination by another name for individuals with disabilities (as just one example).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • anonnon 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Thanks to all the OSS projects that adopted this in preference to mailing lists to better appeal to zoomers. (And note that while these projects often do still have mailing lists, most of the actual discussion now takes place on Discord, behind an authwall.)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • ballooney 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            What are your favourite active irc channels for technical hobbies?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • gigel82 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              It's clear "age verification" is not something we'll get rid of, so I think instead we should push for a publicly verifiable double-blind (zero-knowledge proof) solution that can ensure it only gives the websites a boolean and doesn't allow correlation from either side.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The alternative is having to give your ID to Facebook, Google, Microsoft, and all the other bad actors...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • gloosx 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                can't wait to beat it with a face-swap or some random driving license found on the internet

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • montacir_AL 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  no more discord GenZ

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • AbraKdabra 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Yeah good fucking luck with that. Time for the "discord alternatives" search on Google.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • josefritzishere 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      The CEO of Discord is Humam Sakhnini. He's from McKinsey. So that tracks.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • postsantum an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        How else would you fight growing antisemitism on Discord?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • stuffn 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Finally I feel validated complaining for the last decade about the move away from IRC/teamspeak to centralized services. I've been called all kinds of names.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Now those same people are complaining they're gonna have to submit their faces to discord. Which will eventually be used to prosecute or commit fraud. I'm left wondering if "tech enthusiasts" are ever actually correct.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • malfist 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          This is just the latest in a long trend of increasing spying on users. Why bother having to guess who your user is, or fingerprint a browser if you can just force them to show you their national ID?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          This is transparently about spying on people, not "protecting children". The real world doesn't require you to show your ID to every business you frequent, or every advertiser you walk by. Someone can yell a swear word on the sidewalk, and not everyone within ear shot has to show ID.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • kmeisthax 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Any age verification process that does not consider the age of the account as a verification option is a data trap, plain and simple.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • mmlkrx 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              They are planning on doing something similar:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Discord is also rolling out an age inference model that analyzes metadata like the types of games a user plays, their activity on Discord, and behavioral signals like signs of working hours or the amount of time they spend on Discord.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              “If we have a high confidence that they are an adult, they will not have to go through the other age verification flows,”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • varjolintu 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I'm curious to know what this "model" actually means. A real-time AI monitoring for conversations?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • RupertSalt 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                How does anyone know whether a family is engaging in that time-honored tradition of passing down accounts from grandfather, to father, to son, to child, and their posterity, in perpetuity?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Seriously though, unless you have positively identified the person who created the account in the first place, you have 0% chance of knowing whether it is the same person using it today.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Gamers sell their high-level accounts all the time. It would be a simple matter of economics that the Discord users with the oldest accounts sell them to 12-year-olds. Likewise, accounts are shared willy-nilly, whether or not that violates the rules. And accounts can be stolen or compromised, if you're really hard up.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • smrq 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  How often do you suppose they will be re-checking your ID? Once every... never?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • AJ007 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    They need to have an always-on camera looking at the person using the device. No camera, no discord.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Quillbert182 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    But under that argument, you would have to prove your age on a regular basis, the plan right now appears to be that each account would only need to do so once.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • pixl97 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Just remember that the Terms of Service you agreed to are about as firm as explosive diarrhea.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • RupertSalt 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        You agree not to license, sell, lend, or transfer your account, Discord username, vanity URL, or other unique identifier without our prior written approval. We also reserve the right to delete, change, or reclaim your username, URL, or other identifier.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        If transfer of accounts is a policy violation, then Discord has legal cover to confidently assert that, once ID is verified, the ID'd person is the owner and controller of the account thereafter.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Account selling, stealing, and sharing will certainly still happen, but that's grounds for banning, and not Discord's legal liability anymore.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Quillbert182 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Then why could they not also legally get away with using account age as a proxy?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Ekaros 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Just ban that in TOS. As we know TOS is inviolable. As such it is not possible to sell, gift or otherwise transfer an account. At least this should be considered how it works for age verification. If account transfer is found out account can be terminated thus closing the loop hole.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • RegnisGnaw 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          No law or regulation is ever 100% effective in real life. Income tax is not collected 100% effectively. Should we not do it? Criminals are not caught 100% of the time, should we not do it?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Of course this won't be 100% effective, maybe 80-90% effective. That's all they need and expect from this system.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • gjsman-1000 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Exactly.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            HN is constantly obsessed with is it perfectly effective?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            No law, none, is perfectly effective. Speed limits certainly aren’t self enforcing, but remove your neighborhood’s speed limits first if you truly believe laws must be demonstrated perfect.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • wolvoleo 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Has discord even been around for 18 years?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • sigio 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Yeah, my youtube/google account is almost as old as youtube itself is, but will constantly ask me to verify my age when clicking on something as marked 'not for kids'. Can we just get the leisure-suit-larry age-verification system ;)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • mistrial9 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Apple deleted many legacy mac-dot-com accounts without qualms, not long ago. It was the phone accounts, in so many ways, driving it .. IMHO

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • alex1138 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              You can, of course, not do this (you meaning the company, Discord)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              You can choose to be respectful of people who have valid reasons for not providing ID

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              But you want that sweet IPO money (as stated elsewhere in this thread). You don't actually care about the internet and how anonymity is a cool thing for certain vulnerable groups

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              All these tech CEOs should face prison time and I'm not joking. They've displayed a complete laissez faire attitude to all of these concerns

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • ChrisArchitect 6 hours ago
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • foobarian 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Looks like it might be opt-in by server.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • cynicalsecurity 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Alternative: run your own self-hosted messaging server for you, your family and friends. No company should ever get such sensitive data as private conversations.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Use Discord with a throw-away account. Create a character in GTA 5 on your laptop and show its face (in "selfie" mode) to the web-camera on another computer with Discord open. All face scan checks so far gladly accept it. Instagram has been requiring occasional face checks for ages already.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • verdverm 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      How many people are doing age restricted stuff on Discord (besides the specifically there for adult content and gooning crowd)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      All of my use is primarily professional and gaming and has no age concerns

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • sigio 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Gaming certainly has age-concerns, many games are rated 13/15/16+ or 18+

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        But yeah, leaving discord... they are not getting my ID/Photo

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • reorder9695 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Ratings aren't legally binding though are they? I bought games older rated than I was, and it's totally up to people's parents what they're allowed to play. Are you suggesting a 15 year old should be allowed to play the 16 rated game but not discuss it?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • verdverm 5 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Can their parents also approve their discord usage?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Are you saying they need parents to buy the game, but shouldn't to join chats about the same game?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • verdverm 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            At least Google is pushing on zero-knowledge solutions

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Maybe they can force everyone's hand like they did for https

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            https://blog.google/innovation-and-ai/technology/safety-secu...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • stuffn 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Does it matter? The problem is that everyone uses discord for everything. It's not an isolated platform, it's THE platform if you want to have friends.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • verdverm a minute ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              If you don't access adult stuff, you don't need to verify age. I'm not giving them my ID, I'm not expecting anything to change about my Discord experience.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              What's the issue?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Simulacra 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            No thanks. Discord, it has been fun, but I decline.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • nananana9 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Honestly they're probably big enough to get away with it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              If it was only friend groups it would kill them for sure, we've seen that many times, but given the absurd amount many large online communities on Discord, I'd wager they can force it down and be relatively unscathed.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              They played the long game - they provided a good service for 10 years, and got REALLY big before they started the enshittification process.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • seneca 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Hard no. Reality is that this push is everywhere. Authoritarian governments are cracking down hard on dissent, they're not going to leave huge platforms for communication untouched. We'll need open source decentralized alternatives.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • accrual 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Indeed, the article basically says as much in more pacifying terms:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  > driven by an international legal push for age checks and stronger child safety measures

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • SoftTalker 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    HN: Social media is terrible and ruining kids' mental health.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Also HN: Any attempt to limit access to verified adults is an "authoritarian crackdown" and totally unacceptable.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • z0r 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Children generally have these things called "parents" who are supposedly responsible for their well being. Oh hey, suddenly there isn't a contradiction.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • SoftTalker 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Right, helicopter parenting. Gets a lot of praise here, I forgot.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • hiccup_socks 33 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          you may be surprised to learn that you can be a parent and have rules without being a "helicopter parent".

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          given your other bad faith comments in this thread, though, im sure you know that and are just trying to be contrarian for... fun? is it fun?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • pseudalopex 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        HN commenters are many. Not 1. And 1 person can believe 2 things are bad.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • sneak 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Reminder: “age verification” is just another way of spelling “every single user of the service must provide a government ID to use it”.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • ravenstine 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Haven't cared about Discord in a long time. In fact I'm glad they're continuing to shoot themselves in the foot.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        During the pandemic, I was on a Discord server for folks to socialize and blow off steam about the whole situation. Yes, there were some anti-vaxx wackos, but overall the place was civil and balanced, and I met some interesting people through it. We cracked jokes and it was a little bit of fun in a tough time.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        One day I came to discover that Discord had banned the server for allegedly violating... something. I wish I had written down everyone's emails because I permanently lost contact with a bunch of friends in an instant.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I never signed in to Discord again, in spite of times where some other social group wanted to use it. I vowed never to use Discord again. Fuck those guys and the Teslas they rode in on. I hope this ID verification thing is another big step towards their irrelevancy.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • gjsman-1000 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Discord has 150 million monthly active users.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          They’ll be fine. To them, this is just another internet boycott, with all that entails. Reddit survived a worse one and grew afterward.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • ravenstine 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            The difference with Reddit is it has way more persistent value. Everything on Discord is throwaway, but valuable posts on Reddit from years past are easily retrievable. The two aren't so comparable.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            One of the unspoken reasons many people have for using Discord is they don't want what they say to easily be associated with them in perpetuity. Requiring ID really chips away at that, in spite of what Discord has to say about privacy around ID.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            By no means am I saying that Discord will go extinct. I just haven't observed anything about it that's irreplaceable. Reddit, on the other hand, has a wealth of discussion dating back to the mid-to-late 00's.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Terr_ 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              > valuable posts on Reddit from years past are easily retrievable.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Rant: Several years ago, everything I'd ever written for over a decade on Reddit vanished one morning for no discernible reason, including all nested replies from other people. I appealed, my appeal was "granted", and nothing changed, except the appeals page refused to work because it said my account was already in good standing.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I dug up an ancient account I had used for resume feedback, asked around in the help subreddits, and it too was killed the same way.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • ravenstine 4 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  There's this thing called the Wayback Machine, but I lol'd at your response. It's not untrue. xD

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • alex1138 3 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              You should be more tolerant of the "anti-vaxx wackos". The covid 'vaccine' has a very large number of negative externalities, confirmed by scores of credentialed doctors and researchers

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • jmye 25 minutes ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                It's wild that this nonsense is still floating around by people pushing "credentialed doctors", whatever the fuck they think that means. No one with any vague degree of credibility would now or ever has supported "very large number" and all of the "externalities" (are you sure you're using the right words) have been vastly outweighed by the things the vaccine provably did.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                So tired of this shit.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • josefritzishere 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              This is not OK.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • ryanmcbride an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Finally the kids will be safe. We did it everyone! /s

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • onetokeoverthe 7 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  another one bites the dust.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • eur0pa 6 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    No thank you, get fucked

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • dchi04 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      A lot of whining here about how this is an imperfect response to the issue of children being exploited on Discord / using the platform to engage with inappropriate content.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Until someone offers up something better, I take these types of initiatives from social media platforms as huge wins. Ignoring the problem will not make it better. We've been ignoring it for about 20 years now, and it's only gotten worse.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • OkayPhysicist 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The thing stopping kids from getting "exploited on Discord" ought to be the same thing that stops them from stabbing each other with pencils. Raise your kids better, and stop expecting everyone else to tolerate your failure to do so.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • dchi04 an hour ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          A majority of Americans are in favor of age verification.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          https://www.edweek.org/technology/not-meant-for-children-adu...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Have you ever considered that it's the other way around? Maybe the security needs of a minority shouldn't block policies with wide support that will protect children online?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Either way, the whole "parent better" argument doesn't work. It's victim-blaming. Thousands of kids download Discord every day to play video games with their friends only to eventually be invited to servers which host explicit content / bad actors that we know can permanently harm them. A bunch of software engineers on HN may understand the risks that online platforms pose to their children, but much of the population cannot/will not fully comprehend this. We should not allow their children to experience terrible things just because their parents aren't read up about which platforms will gladly allow creeps to interact with or message their kids.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The answer here is simple: if you don't like age verification, move on to a different service. Creating spaces where there are rules and order on the internet for those that are vulnerable is much more important than you not wanting to upload a picture of your ID to a platform that you're using completely voluntarily.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • peterlk 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The solution is parents! Stop making your bad parenting my problem!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • pwndByDeath 2 hours ago

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Be responsible for your spawn and don't be a weenie about asserting boundaries for them.